I am gearing up to ask to ask my law firm if I can to go reduced hours for a bit to care for my little one. We are struggling with finding childcare and I also want to be more present while he is this little. I would appreciate any and all tips on how I should approach this conversation.

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No tips, just here to say you go girl for knowing your priorities and working to make your job and life what you want it to be!

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Thank you! I’m so nervous to ask but I’m going to anyways. The worst they can say is no. I like the firm and don’t want to leave but would appreciate some help as I transition back. I know I will take a hit with a reduction in my salary but this is why I paid off my students loans and have been living way below our means. I took a hit when I went out on maternity leave but we have been fine which is why we are okay with this change. For at least a little bit.

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Following...I'm going back to work soon and I cannot fathom being away from my baby boy. But I'm the breadwinner so..

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This first week back was rough. :/

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Im in biglaw and requested a reduced schedule to care for a terminally ill parent but on a pretty much permanent basis (until they pass, which hasn’t happened yet/wont happen for maybe a few years).

First, I spoke with colleagues about how they went about asking for reduced hours and had a solid plan for exactly what I was asking for (80% schedule, for how long (1 year plus) and how I planned to still be responsive 24/7 regardless of billing less overall). I scheduled a meeting with my PG head who I had a good relationship with and made the pitch, then coordinated with HR from there. HR conveyed the schedule to the partners I work with. I do occasionally remind people I’m on a reduced schedule when I’m overwhelmed as well.

I will say, I was prepared to get PIP’ed if it didn’t go well, but thankfully that was an unwarranted fear.

Good luck!

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Good luck!!

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Good luck and good for you! Keep us posted on how it goes. I think it’s important to stress that this stage is only temporary- you want to focus on your children while they are young. There will be a time where there are in school and you’ll have more time to shift back toward your career goals. I hope your firm is supportive.

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That’s great news! And exactly how a firm should be when a request like this is made. Good for you for making that decision and having the courage to ask.

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I converted a telework day to an off day, which was an easier ask I think.

Thank you for the lift! I’m so nervous to ask but am going to next week!

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