I have been distressed from almost one week. My parents have cut me, i am in no contact with them from almost 7 years or so. I have been so peaceful after they cut me off. I tried reconciliation but that wouldn't work. But anyways it has been mostly very peaceful after the chaos. But I feel fomo sometimes, people having a good family bonding. Just want to share with someone. But one good thing is that, after the cut off, career has been really smooth and p3aceful

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I had really bad fight with my elder sister who is married , after that its not same relation with her - me and my wife started maintaining safe distance when she comes at home we greet her but we dont visit her home unless very urgent . Last time I visited when her MIL passed away as person should be with others in tough times.

My father recently told to go and visit my sister family but I made some excuse and told will do if some function is at her home.

Summary : dont break the relationship completely maintain safe distance so people cant disrespect you

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It is already broken. Nothing can be done . And I am not sad about teh bygones. Just want to look forward. Bcz i can't go back again, it will be so toxic. They are happy without me. It's a fact. When thoughts like this pop, I just wanted new suggestions, if anything would work

Bro we don't know ur circumstances better than u, try to look forward.
If needed try a therapist ai than a real therapist, but peace is a combo of inner happiness and outer environment, peace is always better, but it's on u to choose it, people find peace in difficult situations, if u can't that doesn't make u bad.
Just stay respectful and help when needed, u can stay away, it's fine, afterall they are ur parents.

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Wlany ai therapist suggestions

Idk what kinda ppl you have in your family but without family its tough for me even for 1 hr forget about 1 day or month

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Parents are really tough especially when they age.. but try to go below them be patient try to convinence if not stay away for short time not for 7 yrs nd all.. go and meet them and say sorry and do what they wish and get them what they want.... nothing will go wrong.. our career can be restarted or continued wherever we are but once ur parents gone u will not get back... sorry if I m wrong or hurted u.. this is my hard lesson learnt in my life..

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There is nothing they say sorry about. Can't explain much here. They wanted me to be doctor, and stuffs like that, it blew up. Only way I can go back is to be a doctor and many more stories in background that has gone beyond repair and sorry won't fix it. Sad, but, toxic parents exist. Like they say, all children deserve parent, but all parents don't deserve children.

Why 99% tcs people are dumb and psychotic ?

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