I just heard a recording of myself interviewing a witness and am mortified. I sound unconfident and like a little girl. There are lots of “ok”, “um”, and “like”. Any tips?

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Whenever you want to add a filler word, just stay quiet. That's what I do personally because I sound like someone from the valley and I'm not even from there lol

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Speaking far more slowly than you think you need to

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The above advice is great but also remember that we are our own worst critics and it definitely doesn’t sound as bad to others as it does to you!

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I struggled with this too, and still have to remind myself to swallow my “like”s and “um”s and just silently pause instead. Listening to recordings like that helps. Being overprepared so you have a little more mental bandwidth to devote to how you speak can help too. Make a conscious effort over time and you’ll get better at it.

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It’s probably not as bad as you think.

But you’ve heard it, now fix it. Take a class if you need to on public speaking. This is fixable, and a great way to develop yourself as a professional.

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easy fix. set a timer on your phone for 2 minutes. speak about any topic for 2 minutes straight without saying um or like. keep trying until you can do it.

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Hi
Hope you are doing well

I was working with Mindtickle.
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