I just turned 50, got hit by a layoff, and the reality of ageism is setting in fast. It’s wild how the laws meant to protect older workers look great on paper, but in practice, companies have a million workarounds. Has anyone actually managed to prove ageism during a job hunt, or do we just have to find a way to work around it?

like
Posting as :
works at
You are currently posting as works at
Highlighted IconHIGHLIGHTED

The market is tough right now. There’s companies out there with lots of longevity and matured talent. Hang in there. You’ll get something soon.

Good luck.

like

The "you'll get something soon" is a nice sentiment but statistically incorrect

like

I ran into this after getting laid off at 52. The second I shortened my resume and stopped listing jobs from the 90s, I started getting more callbacks. It shouldn’t matter, but it definitely felt like it did.

like

Make a separate post with your question

like
Recent IconRecent

I just went through something similar. I spoke with a recruiter who works primarily in my field. He recommended that I omit the first 10 years off my resume. Sound advice. I thought all that experience would establish my skills and credibility but it was working against me.

like

It’s not fair at all. The system fails older job seekers. However, it’s much easier to play the game than beat the system so I think it’s good advice to follow to line up a job to pay the bills. Then there’s always opportunity to keep trying while having an income.

like

I’m 50 6 months still looking living off of unemployment. It’s soo hard today. I’m about to start accepting applications for a sugar daddy. I can’t find work !! I am very experienced LOL 🤣

like

I am 55 with 34 years experience driving a truck, with all that experience it still took me 2 weeks to land a job. I did have a couple of interviews, but those were with companies people work for as a very last option. Im sure my age has a lot to do with it, but of course no company can actually say that's the reason. Start orientation with a company on Tuesday, that will be until I start school then start my own business. Best of luck to each and every one of you.

like

Thanks for posting this. 52 and have extensive expertise as PSW. Been applying for over a year. My unemployment ran out. So stressed. I like the idea of getting rid of earlier employment. Going to try it. Thanks 🙏

like

Let's just say I am over 60. It took me 2.5 years after getting laid off to find another job. I am well qualified for all the hundreds of jobs I applied for and they would even say so. But once they would see me in the teams interview then everything would change. I am certain after what I went through it was ageism that kwpt me from getting a job much sooner. My prayers are with you!

like

I’m in the same boat I am 70 but I have worked in the construction field project administrator executive assistant all my career and you’re right you send out your resumes. They love it. They call you. They can’t wait to get you in and then as soon as they see you in person or video conference, you could look at their face oh, she’s old you don’t want her I’ve just given up and I’m just going into retirement. I have been looking for a job for over 10 months. Good luck to all y’all out there.

like

I think that the older Americans who are out of work, like myself, are going to have to come to grips with the probability that we very likely will never be hired again. Period. We need to face that reality and strategize from there. Enough anecdotal and actual evidence has started to trickle in that should wake us up. We're not dead, we don't need to feel sorry for ourselves, we need to be creative, resilient and innovative in finding new ways to earn money. I'm not done contributing, not done earning, not done working. It's my job to figure out how to make that happen instead of bemoaning how long I've been unemployed, how unfair the current hiring practices are and how bummed out I am because of it all. I'm tired of hearing myself complain. I'm not sad anymore, I'm pissed off and so should you be. Use that edge from the anger all of us should feel. Use it!

like

It's already on the verge of insolvency. With the birth rate in decline as is going to be very difficult to prevent total bankruptcy of the entire social security program.

like

It's not just ageism. I got laid off after my previous company violated my disability rights. You are spot on about companies finding a loophole. I'm in my 50s now and like others have said, I have removed anything that will date me on my resume. During interviews, I do the same and focus on my skills, talent and what I bring to the table. I leave any negativity out.

like

i worked for a fortune 100 company for 28 years - my birthday was September 18 and on September 30 i got laid off Age 60 age related ? makes you think . . . within 2 months program managers i used to support started calling me on my cell telling me they need me back there because the people they had could not do the programming that i did without any issues. i told them they could keep the un-experienced people they have. i started digital marketing and am happier than i ever was working for them. - - - keep in the fight and you will find something. . .

like

it is hard to proof because it is hard to be sure that it is there
is it there?
there are plenty of people in their late 30 who straggle to land a job

like

Amazon is always hiring managers. They like seasoned people who have leadership experience AND are comfortable with lots of data. If you’re a little weird, even better. Total package is great. Have to be able to tell good stories that include the Leadership Principles.

like

What is an alarm?

I noticed that too. They don’t ask for age on paper when applying but when they meet you for interview they immediately have an excuse like the position is closed (then why drag me in for an interview!).

like

I'm in about the same spot now. Not quite 50, but have been job hunting for a couple of months now. It seems AI (or some other algorithm process) filters 'everything'... do hiring departments and hiring get ANY applications and resumes at all?!?! And I've been out of work far longer than I've been searching - that's another story altogether.

I was told to try having AI generate my resume and I did that and so far I’ve had pretty positive feedback on my resume. Got an interview just walking in with a copy but didn’t feel the job was worth the pay and the minimum hours won’t work to pay cost of living. I don’t understand how or why they don’t see that we’re all just trying to survive, many are one pay check away from homelessness or need a loan to get through until job is landed. It’s absolutely scary.

I have no doubt ageism is real and alive in this job market. I see a post at least once a week on here of people having these issues. I think it’s a smart idea to listen to the other comments and remove some of the dates and older jobs you have on your resume

I hear you. In 2024 I got sick. In 2026 I was still working at the company yet I had to come in late every Monday as I had Dr appointment. I got approved for intermittent fmla and told my supervisor. She was not to happy. That was in March. End of April somehow my name was in the group for layoffs. I worked harder than my other coworkers, knew more about the program than the developers. all the reps that needed help were only coming to me because I was nice I shared tips and trick with them. I cared if they were having a bad day I helped them because it could effect their work. Another coworker is known by the company to be talking people into staging walkout when he didnt approve of new policies. He still works there. Managers in other departments are shocked that I was let go. They said it was personal. I am of the age group that is protected, I was on fmla and they didn’t care. They would rather have someone overseas do the work. Congress needs to pass a law fining companies for hiring overseas workers. but Why keep someone who is the most knowledgeable of the product for someone who tells a fib and says xyz when it’s not going to work and could cause issues for offices down the line.

I’m late 40’s, currently working a very under appreciated and under paid job and have been searching for nearly 6 months, had 2 interviews within a couple weeks last month then one hired in house and the other was less pay than I currently make so it wasn’t going to work financially and then I did a walk in with my resume at a few businesses today and got an interview with my new revamped resume and they want to hire me but the down side, it’s part time, not guaranteed full, the hours will suck royally and they have a high turn over rate which tells me it might not be a good fit so I’m still looking. Potentially have another interview in the works soon but it has been very stressful and hard finding something I can physically do or mentally handle because if it’s not stress over money, it’s work drama that has me stressed and neither are fixable instantly right now. My kids tell me I still looking young bless their heart but on paper I think they don’t give it a thought because it appears as though I’m an old lady. 🤷🏼‍♀️ Just gotta keep trying until something sticks. 🙏

Related Posts

Is sending kids to private school worth it? Talking about 25k-30k per year. Living inside city where public school are average. Thinking of sending kid to international school with bilingual program (family speaks multiple languages)…. The money adds up a lot over a lifetime. Especially if we have more than 1 kid.

like

Folks - anyone purchase or lease a car under their LLC? If so, advantages and disadvantages of this move?

like

How long does D take to issue the experience/service letters? I was on-site, quit 2-3 months back but didn’t receive my experience letter? When I tried inquiring apparently they (USI) hadn’t heard back from the US teams if my assets were submitted (which I shipped and were received). Any help? Who should I reach out to? Thanks!

like

Anyone in Chicago know how long the hold-up for Cook County background checks is? I know they are backed up so just hoping for an estimate.

Investing newbie here trying to invest my hsa. Debating if I should do 100% on something like viix for simplicity or if I should diversify? If diversifying, what’s a recommended approach? Perhaps 2-4 funds? Many thanks for the help.

like

First year litigator still waiting for that summer slowdown everyone keeps talking about….at this point I could take 2 months off and still hit the billable target. I was told there would be “ebbs and flows” but this has just been a 9 month barrage with no end in sight

likehelpful

Our team is searching for a seasoned oracle developer specializing in retail/ecommerce, along with cloud exp. Fully remote. If your interested DM me.

like

Hey Guys, Currently I am having 16.12 lac pa in current organization and 5% Bonus So total comes around 16.93lac pa. Nagarro is asking me to rejoin at 20 lac pa (5% Project bonus included).
When I left Nagarro around 2 years back my fixed there was 11.50. Shall I consider this offer of Nagarro. Reason I want to change the job is because I don't have code based automation in my current organization and I have been an SDET in my whole experience.

like

I’m trying to transfer departments at my company and I talked to the MD of the department i wanna transfer to, and told him working remotely is a requirement to me, and he said he’s not sure if that’s possible, and that would depend on HR and the hiring manager. He still forwarded my resume to HR and I got an interview. How should I negotiate to make the role fully remote?

like

Can anyone share a salary range for a Privacy Manager role in the private sector for someone with a JD and several years of experience?

At what income level should one be comfortable to spend 2400/mo on rent in HCOL? Assuming single, no kids, no debt or major expenses.

like

I'm under contract for a new build in progress that won't be done until much later this year. I fully expect interest rates will be higher than what I originally estimated. I may or may not try to lock in a good rate early, but I'm planning on renting it out and this throws a bit if a wrench in my margins. I can take it financially, but wondering, If I absolutely needed to get out of buying it, what recourse do I have? Or could I go ahead, and refinance later (who knows rates at that time...)?

like

I just got into reading books, any suggestions to start with? Which could help to increase media/marketing knowledge.

like

Are we all fucked?

Post Photo
like

What is the difference between an account executive and a project manager? When I look at the job descriptions there is not a lot of clarification. Could you enlighten me?

like

I'm searching for SAP Security openings for 3yrs experience.

like

How much prof liability coverage should a solo plaintiffs attorney carry.

like

What are people views on electronic signing of documents E.g. Docusign, Adobe sign etc? Have a counterparty freaking out over the suggestion.i just assumed we were all from this century now and had accepted as valid.

like

Anyone commute on PATH from NYC to Jersey City or the other way around? What part of either city do you live and where's work, how long is your commute, and do you feel like your commute is practical with what you're getting in return, or do you wish you lived closer to work?

like

New to Fishbowl?

Download the Fishbowl app to
unlock all discussions on Fishbowl.
That was just a preview…
Sign Up to see all discussions
  • Discover what it’s like to work at companies from real professionals
  • Get candid advice from people in your field in a safe space
  • Chat and network with other professionals in your field
Sign up in seconds to unlock all discussions on Fishbowl.

Already a user?
Login here

Share

Embed this post

Copy and paste embed code on your site

Preview

Download the
Fishbowl app

See what’s happening in your industry
from the palm of your hand.

A phone with Fishbowl app

Scan your QR code to download
Fishbowl app on your mobile

Download app

Sign up for free to view this conversation on Fishbowl

By continuing you agree to Terms of Use and Privacy Policy

Already have an account? Log in

Sign up for free to continue using Fishbowl

By continuing you agree to Terms of Use(New) and Privacy Policy(New)
Messaging rates may apply

Already have an account? Log in

For account settings, visit Fishbowl on Desktop Browser or

General

Legal