I know it’s none of my business and I’m not going to say anything to the involved parties, but one of my good (married) friends let it slip that he slept with a bartender he met last summer, but they are 100% not in an open marriage and I’m closer with the other husband.. idk maybe it was a one-night hall pass kinda thing but like this guy was shouting it out at a bar the other night and I’m cringing inside for not saying something and had to vent

I have my first case review I am kind of nervous about it, wish me luck. I am not scared, I am just nervous about it.

Hello fishes, what to expect from the first day of the job, i am starting my first job from next Monday and needed advice.

Do STEM-OPT holders with valid F1 visa have to follow 14 day Quarantine rule before entering US? Also, does NIE automatically apply to F1 STEM-OPT?

Any real estate lawyers getting weird questions given the current state? (Continued in comments)

Hi fishes,

The rumors about PwC KSDC changing the bonus/hike payout cycle from July to an earlier month between March and June are picking pace. If there is any senior staff, or member with credible information on this, please share your 2 cents. The suspense is killing me, and I am sure many of you echo my sentiments here.

So far, I have heard:
- March
- May
- June
- July but with salary effective from April (paid as arrears in July). Something similar for June as well.

How’s your WFH workload, all? This week: Mon: 10 am - 2 am. Tues: 9 am-8 pm. Wed: 10 am-9 pm. Thurs: 10 am - 8 pm. Fri: 9:30 am-8 pm. Sat: 10 am - 7 pm. Sun: noon - 4 pm, then 7 pm - 11 pm.
This ... is ... not ... sustainable! I’m the sole earner and have a kid, so “just quit!” during a pandemic is not it - and “setting boundaries” ain’t easy when I’m always reachable by text/zoom/email. I’m fortunate to have a job, but damn. Working From Home = Working Forever From Everywhere. And it sucks.

Hi folks
Joined birlsoft lastweek

Please let me know how to declare and modify medical details of dependents

How to apply for WFH kit like table chair?

Whwn we can declare flexi

Has anyone found a good deal on a car recently? Open to buying used or new, and happy to drive a ways to get it for the right price.

Salary range for someone doing payroll, AR, and benefits administration with 12 years experience.

I’m beginning to think all the 2020 SB briefs started with... “we need a big personality to represent our brand.” Since when is celebrity a substitute for concept?🤔

Day 4 stims. Many of the follicles are super small but one is 12.4. They are adjusting my protocol but didn’t tell me much more than that - any sense of whether that’s normal or something to be concerned about? TIA!

How many 3 day embryos to transfer ? My re wants to transfer only 2.

What companies take their in-house brand and marketing teams most seriously? And by that, I mean C-Suite respecting their leadership and placing high expectations on them.

What if Elon Musk replaces Rajesh Gopinathan as the CEO of TCS?
All the useless managers will be fired?

Any good book recommendations that helped give you the confidence and tactics required for a transition to leadership role? Newly promoted SM looking for inspirational reads.

Best materials fit practice q’s? ~3 weeks out from first test

Looking for foreign lawyers who got an LLM in the US and successfully landed their legal career in here. I’m graduating with great gpa (3.8+) but having a hard time getting interviews. I wanted to stay long term but would need visa sponsorship. Any advice would be helpful!

Im mainly into POC and they’re so hard to find at the big 4. Finally met a cute POC & come to find out he has a wife. When I tell you I was so sad 😂

Well 😒 accidentally gave up my rose on hinge to the wrong dude. Was saving it for “the one.” Now this guy keeps texting me. He seems okay - I figure I should prob at least do a coffee date. (Or, Maybe a make out session and some heavy petting in the corner at starbucks? Is that still a thing for first coffee dates?) Will also wear the cologne im buying this weekend! I don’t know how long it takes for my rose to grow back on the app.

Do you find that what you find attractive physically has dramatically changed over the years? Everything from body type to facial features I swoon over is so totally different

Are poppers bad? Are they frying our brains? Post your thots below

Xtina’s new Mulan release 😍 and a spanish version too... Dios mío!

I am lesbian . I was talking to this gal then she stopped cold turkey. I’m striking out on dating apps. I’m in my thirties. I get hit on by men but I’m just not into it… 🤷‍♀️

Any 🐠 attending the Pilgrimage Festival in Nashville this weekend?

Any fish in SF

Any married gay couple give (or planning to give) red envelopes during Lunar New Year?

Was hanging out with a friend in town. We met on Bumble but he just wanted to be friends. He has dated several guys since we met and we continue to hangout as friends (cont)

Who’s in Dallas at ACT?? I missed the networking time and want to grab drinks

Doctor rec’s? I was in DC before and I used to go to Whitman Walker, an LGBT focused primary care clinic, clean, efficient and friendly, and they understood the LGBT needs, like PrEP, very well, which is mainly what I need from my PCP. Is there such a thing in NYC?

My anxiety is through the roof for the 2024 USA presidential election. I’m so scared that DeSantis or Trump will win and we will lose all rights as transgender people. Someone please comfort me.

Hooked up with a guy I really like in Montreal, too bad I live in the States :(

Every single project I'm part of is filled with 30-something engaged or married guys who are straight. I give up

30 yo gent here... I need to start going on dates with people who travel more ... this going on dates with people in the same city every week has been a big of a struggle. Anyone single!?

Lesbian fish in LA or staffed on a project there? Dranks? 🥂

Thoughts on preferred pronouns in your email signature?

There’s this guy at work I really like. We’re really really good friends but I’ve caught feels since the day I met him and I just want to tell him how I feel but I don’t want to ruin our great friendship. He’s the closest friend I have.

Any non-cishet male folks want to chat? Missing community right now!