I’m going on maternity leave soon, and my husband and I are taking our leave back-to-back to stretch coverage. I’ll be home first, then he’ll take over. We also have a toddler, which makes me a little nervous about how this will play out. My mom’s staying for two weeks and my MIL for three, so I’m hoping that’s enough recovery time before I’m solo with both kids. Has anyone done staggered leave with a toddler and newborn? Would love to hear what worked (or didn’t).

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We did back-to-back leave too and it definitely helped stretch out coverage, but those solo weeks were tough at first. Having your mom and MIL lined up will make a huge difference. Just don’t be afraid to lower expectations and ask for help when you need it.

I had about two weeks of my husband being home after having baby #2 with a 5 year old at home too. Out of toddler years so that was a bit easier. Not much help then and he didn’t have much for paternity leave. My best advice is make the most of the help and ask for help if somebody is willing to give it!

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