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Sometimes I get so jealous of those who have their person who get to be happy with them while I keep getting left behind. It makes me feel like maybe I am just not good enough.

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How’s everyone doing? A new season is coming!
I hope everyone is taking care of themselves. Let’s get a list going, what’re things that make you feel like you?

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He walked into the restaurant I was at last night. Not planned, no warning. My heart raced and I was shaking, I eventually faced him and we talked.
Nothings changed. We drank and he emotionally dumped on me for t… more

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I changed his contact name to be ‘he doesn’t want to sleep with you’. I’m hoping that helps.
I haven’t had really good male attention in awhile and it’s making me feel stuck.

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Talked on the phone with my ex last night. It was nice to chat, but somehow I still feel being criticized and put down, and needed to prove myself to him, just like how I felt in the latter half of th… more

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Just when I was starting to do ok. My ex texted me tonight to tell me she had shipped me my stuff and I feel like any progress I had made in letting go and accepting things just went out the window.

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My fiancee broke things off two weeks ago tomorrow. I struggled hardcore last week. This week is slightly better. I’m just struggling with figuring how and when to move on. I know I need to take time … more

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Whelp. Its going down. After giving space to my avoidant gf, she ready to talk and give me her decision on whether she wants to commit or end. Wish me luck fellow fishies. Hoping for the best expectin… more

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Whelp. Been in a relationship with a great girl (28f) who is in residency for internal medicine rn. Dated for about 4 months. About 3 wks ago had a convo where she felt emotionally distant and unsure … more

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It’s been over a year and I still cry everyday. I can’t let go bc I’m still holding onto hope even though they’ve told me multiple times time they don’t love me anymore but I still have this gut feeli… more

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I just broke up with my avoidant attachment boyfriend. We have been together for a year and half. I was very unhappy—-he has no time for me. I am a terrible person, I said a lot of terrible things to … more

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I can’t tell if any of it was real? overall i know i deserved better and it wasn’t the healthiest

But am i making up the good parts? bc how could someone who never truly showed up for me in the way i … more

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Lonely male here, and I don’t want to show I am vulnerable around my circles. I could use some distraction and shenanigans. DM if you are feeling the same :)

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Why do I still feel sad?
I feel the distance growing the more days pass with no contact, I feel the knot in my stomach loosen as I distract myself, I feel the memory of the good times become less clear, I f… more

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I need some support to get over this: i was strung along by a guy, who lives in another country for so long, he tried to help me get a job in his city and the day this job materializes he blows it off… more

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This.

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Anyone ever manifest their ex back? Is this bonkers?

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What are the condition you set to take him/her back?

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Is it only me who feels lonely 😩 ? These dating apps are mentally exhausting. I wished I had someone to take for weekend getaway and disconnect

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Hopefully this is my last post about this. It has to be over this time. We ended up being in the same town for work, completely unplanned. The familiar pit landed in my stomach when he told me. We met… more

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I need inspiration that this on/off/on situation-ship will end. There’s a big part of me that thinks I won’t be able to walk away until there’s someone else; even a crush. When it did finally end, how… more

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I want to hear from him and I don’t want to hear from him at the same time. Work keeps me busy during the day and then once it’s over I feel that emptiness in my stomach that makes me feel unbalanced.

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Did anyone work with a relationship coach or the like to move on from their ex? Any advice? Im desperate to move on and nothing works and I keep breaking no contact. It’s been 1.5 hours and my ex is h… more

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Reading that I feel this way because I’m trauma bonded but then also read you will always be pulled towards your soulmate. 💀

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I need a new crush immediately. I need flirting and romance and vulnerability to take up space in my head so I stop wanting to text him important things and non important things. I know he doesn’t des… more

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I have always gave more love than I receive. I don’t understand what’s wrong with me.

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A friend is going through a nasty divorce, and has confided in me over the years as his marriage deteriorated. His soon to be ex-wife texted me asking: “if I’d be willing to talk with her.” I know her… more

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It’s over…again.

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So my ex and I broke up a year ago and I left some stuff at his place. Only one thing that I really wanted back- the book Fire and Blood (what the show House of the Dragon is based on). Last weekend, … more

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So true!!

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Even though we said we would still be friends, I haven’t heard from them in over 2 months. Would it be an awful idea for me to reach out (I’ve been the one to reach out before) 😢

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Just popping in here to say it's been 8 months of NC (on my end, anyway – they've reached out once or twice with polite messages and I've barely responded) and I'm doing okay, happy even. Sl… more

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On Tinder, if someone is hot but obviously a fake or GenAI profile, do you (a) swipe left because they’re not real or possibly a scammer, or (b) swipe right to teach the algorithm your preferences?

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I wonder if I ever cross their mind. And if I will ever hear from them again 😔 (over 2 mos no contact now)

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They were supposed to be my person forever so why did they act the way they did? Why couldn’t they be better? A little bit rhetorical and a little bit not

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It’s been a year after the end of my 2 year relationship and I feel fulfilled without them but still miss certain parts of the time I was with them

I don’t want them back but there’s days and weeks that I can’t s… more

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Pro tip: just reach out to your recently separated or divorced friends. Simple text or call. It’ll mean the world to them.

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