My wife accepted an opportunity we couldn’t pass up, so after 12 years in Government IT, I’m back on the job market.

The hardest part isn’t moving. It’s wondering whether I still have what employers are looking for. No degree, a job market that’s completely changed, ATS filters, AI resumes… it’s honestly intimidating, especially when you’re trying to find something stable that will carry you into retirement.

Has anyone else gone through this?

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I have gone through that process a couple of times. I jokingly refer to myself as my wife’s plus one. I believe if the team does better we all do better. The search is frustrating. It’s a job by itself! Get to know people in your new location. Don’t be afraid to volunteer. And power through the tough days. You’ll make it. In the meantime, cook dinner for the spouse so you feel like you’re supporting the effort. That’s what I do as a hybrid worker now. Best of luck!

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Thanks, that is actually helpful.

I moved to a different country for my husband. It is scary and really hard, ngl.

Maybe you could network with some of the other spouses.

Going through the same thing right now, IT’S ROUGH !!! Especially with over 50 years experience 🫤
Peace ✌️

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