One of the team members I manage has more experience (he has 9 years, I have 7) and I’ve been noticing some manipulative behavior from him recently(after he came in my hierarchy.
For instance, when I recently gave him feedback on things that weren’t done correctly and shared my expectations, he responded with, “Aap itna hyper kyun ho jaati hain har baat pe?”

While the comment may not seem severe, I found it disrespectful and subtly sexist.
What would you suggest I do in this situation?

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First it is not sexiest
Second, you can say I have to report to my manager also...So, am requesting your assistance/support/etc...

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I think don't go to manager.
I think it will destroy his career.
First, check or confront him

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