Watching someone else get promoted flipped a switch I didn’t expect. Suddenly I was replaying every decision I’ve made... what I said yes to, what I passed on, whether I’ve somehow fallen behind without realizing it. I know everyone’s path is different, but it’s hard not to measure yourself against milestones that aren’t even transparent. How do you stop comparing timelines in a profession that’s obsessed with hierarchy and titles?

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Reframe progress around skills and optionality, not titles. Timelines vary wildly, even if firms pretend they don’t.

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Could be politics rather than anything to do with legitimate abilities or skill.

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This. Happened to so many people; down to an arbitrary new rule of that year of „you have to be in your old role for X years“.

By controlling what you can control - your work and the time you put in developing your skills. If you take care of those things you’ll do fine.

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