Worth a shot.

People who have cheated in their previous relationships, how did you come to realize the reason behind your behavior? A close friend confided in me that she has cheated in all her previous relationships and struggles to understand the reasoning behind it. She feels a lot of shame and is trying to understand why she does what she does.I have suggested therapy but she is not ready yet. How did you folks arrive at the root cause behind your behavior? Advice? Book suggestions that I can pass along?

So… 3.5 year relationship came crashing in Jan due to covid depression, work burn out, lockdown etc. We have stayed in contact and recently he has come around to apologizing and considering getting back together. However he also revealed he started seeing someone casually 4 weeks ago and technically is cheating on her by meeting me for coffee and to discuss this. I’m upset that he’s dating others but shouldn’t be right? I mean, I did the same. Still hurts though. And I told him to sort that out

I am generally uncomfortable when I’m around my mother-in-law’s husband.

While he is overall a decent guy, his anger issues, yelling at his wife for the slightest issue, and insulting nature makes me uncomfortable and triggers my own anger due to his blatant disrespect for just about everyone around him.

My mother-in-law says he’s worked on things, but it’s been 10 years of this and I’m not sure I want such behavior around my wife and our kids since we’re trying to conceive soon (cont).

What has your experience been with wfh? Do you prefer hybrid, rto or permanent remote? For those of you who are permanent remote and living in subs, do you miss the nightlife/weekend plans made in bigger cities like hyd or b’lore?

Hi, can you refer me to your company?
If yes, please DM me. I will share my resume.
My Skill : functional QA Lead
Total YoE : 8.3
CCTC : 12.47 LPA Fixed ; ECTC : 30 LPA Fixed
Looking for a Manager role(not below) ;
Looking for WFH only & Base Location should be Kolkata ;
Current Company : PwC India
Your help on this matter is highly appreciated.

YOE - 8.5 years

Profile - SDE

Current Employer - LTI

How much I can ask from UKG (Kronos)?

Reasons to stay in NYC? Kinda feel really sad living here.

Anyone looking at traveling to Costa Rica? They have a list of states from which they will admit tourists while also requiring a negative covid test, health history, etc. As someone not on the approved list, I am bitter and curious why the population is grouped at a state level when there are massively different rates of infection within each state (not to mention personal responsibility) and you are already required to present a negative test. Any idea how often those lists get updated?

Amazon
Can someone help me with the salary I should quote for the position of a Business Intelligence Engineer at Amazon, with 4 years experience?

I’m curious what YOUR proposed 60/40 schedule looks like? Have you been given a start date for this new schedule?

I had a panic attack in a meeting today. I had no idea what to do and I feel like the others could tell something was wrong but it kept going. If you've had this, what do you do?

Do schools ever admit applicants without interviewing? I didn’t get invited to interview at SOM/Darden — does that mean it’ll 100% be a rejection?...

What was the hardest class year for you? I used to think first year was by far the hardest but now I’m a third year and I’m really feeling the pressure to step up. I work in finance and at this point I’m expected to handle closing documents, manage first years, draft some portions of major docs, etc. I feel like I’m always frazzled, constantly second guessing if I handled something correctly and anxious to answer calls from clients/OC. The worst part is I think people can tell I’m a mess....

I’m a first-time prospective lateral likely to get an offer shortly. I just received a lateral questionnaire that requests billable hours, rates, fees collected, etc. for the last three years. Forgive my ignorance but is this normal/standard? Do people actually answer these honestly? One of the reasons I’m leaving my firm is there isn’t enough work in my group so of course my hours are low.

Hi, What is the max pay for Senior Consultant role C1 band?

We're always looking for new ways to make things easier for our customers and clients, but sometimes I just want to take a step back and breathe.

Currently an HR Generalist looking for a second remote job. Does anyone know of any opportunities? I’m currently freelancing as well.

I'm looking for volunteering opportunities in the city. Something not too time consuming that I can do once a month during the evening and/or weekends.

Feel free promote different organizations and share your experience. Thanks!

Hello MTL how’s quarantine part 2 treating you? Any activity recommendations to stay busy and not go crazy?

Hi 🐟 I just moved up to Montreal area from the US. Any ideas on how to make new friends here. I'm a bit intimidated as I don't speak French. Any tips would be appreciated

Is it possible to get by in Montreal without speaking French? Or will you just look like a rude American?

Hi Montreal,

Currently in Europe, 3.5YOE, I wonder what I should expect for a SC1 position at Deloitte Montreal (consulting, operations). Is ~80k CA$ aligned with 2022 real world?