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Are you a 30 or 40 something year old that has yet to settle down? Share your battles, advice and find the one 😉
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What are examples of good texts to send to someone whose number you recently got to pick-up/start a conversation after those first few initial texts?

how to distinguish between Love bombing and true interest (but for some reasons quite intense) from a man's side?

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Guy I’m seeing finishes in 2 mins and this isn’t working for me. How do I communicate this nicely?

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I believe it the same ole , kind of people on dating apps , got to weed the bad ones out , dating apps remind me of a bar , cover charge going in ,

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Is sad to have to assume that 90% of men who said to be 6ft on their profile are probably between 5'4" and 5'8"

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Got ghosted by an ugly dude!

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Any other ladies here find it a huge turn off when a guy lets you cover the entire bill within the first few dates, or am I just toxic? 😂

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Someone new I have been seeing asked that we get tested for STI / STDs before we get intimate.

Does anyone know what the standard tests are? Yeah, I know that I can google and will be doing that too.

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Do you find it weird or too forward if someone asks to meet in person or grab drinks after the first few messages on a dating app? Haven’t had much luck on the apps and feel like I’m wasting time havi… more

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If you were honest with us and yourself, what stereotypes do you fall into? Mine is manic pixie dream girl 😅👉👈

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I feel like ppl who only do week day dates just not as serious as weekend dates

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What do you guys think about interracial dating ? Decided to start dating again, and a lot of white men are displaying interested but I’ve never dated a white man before. Definitely open to it.

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Thinking about getting back on dating app so I can get validation haha

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Wish I had been born in a generation when men were men smh

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I just graduated from grad school, I’m 28. Tbh I’m the nerdy type of person, got a masters in engineering. Overall have my life together, got a good job, in good shape, fancy degree etc. the only thin… more

Would you date a university, PhD student who does not have a job? Am debating whether to date this guy and I don't want to be his financial purse

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Would you date a correctional peace officer?

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Help. Every time she texts me, she immediately silences notifications. She only sends one text a day and then silences notifications immediately before I respond. We’ve been on one date so far and it went great.<… more

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How do you get over a breakup? Was dating someone for 6 months and thought he was the one. I am utterly devasted and can't seem to contain tears even at work.

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Would you feel obligated to tell a ONS about a pregnancy and planned abortion? Assuming you know it’s his. Why tell him if you’ve already made a decision right?

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Hey I needed some advice, honestly wanted a woman’s perspective. Just wanted to ask in your opinion what health masculinity is, I feel confused on how to act on dates tbh

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I just want someone that I can talk to, hang out with, enjoy each other's company and time. I don't want anything extra, just simple good living. I don't want a perfect person, just a comp… more

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I’m so over it, I’ve known this guy for almost a year now and I stopped seeing him about 7 months ago. He kept reaching out and telling me that he will do better and change. I gave him another chance … more

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I took a trip and met with a few friends from graduate school and found out that two of my four exes are multiple millionaires now (one might be billionaire but not sure); and they both came from nowh… more

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Anyone here in Edmonton?

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Every woman I’ve dated over 30 can relate to my lower back pain…. And there’s something comforting about dating someone who’s always got ibuprofen on them 🥲

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This man on the League wearing a wedding ring in one of his pictures. I heart him just so that I can tell him that. And ofc he is a doctor so he got many hearts. On top of that, he is bold and not cut… more

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If he doesn’t reach out after you ghosted him once, does that mean he likely was never that interested in the first place?

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I've been w/my bf for 6 years & i dont know where things are going anymore. He never talks about where he would like things to go in the future, marriage, or anything.I moved in fall 2021 temp… more

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I need help dating loneliness sucks

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Can u buy you a purse

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30s M. I interviewed with a hiring manager this week. F, not attractive, but not unattractive, roughly my age.

She starts playing with her hair and biting her lip in the interview, and my inner dialog goes:
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Group opinion - they say a true masculine man would not ask a woman what you bring to the table. Man who ask that question so deeply rooted in their feminine energy

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Has anyone in this bowl not had sex for over five years?

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I’m in bad state of mind need to talk someone asap

Summer break week long. Anyone plan on attending any event or hit up a pub/ bar in DALLAS/ DFW area? 37 M and would love to be part of some fun activities.

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