Dating in your 40’s as a guy is mentally exhausting and draining.

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Try being a female in an ocean full of emotionally unavailable men!

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I haven’t tried it yet

Be like me I found mine on SLACK inter office networking between sites

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Dating in your 40s as a lady is the same.

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True, but maybe a dash easier for the ladies.

If you’re on dating apps, take a break, or limit your time on them. Try to meet people in person rather than the apps as it’s much more successful

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"She's like 30, but doesn't look super old"

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To those who divorced or called off the engagement, did you take the ring back? And if so, what did you do with it?

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A reminder to not take life, dating, or yourself too seriously

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