I want quality. But most times they prefer quantity. M45. Quantity can be challenging for my schedule so I really am super laser focused on quality over quantity. But most women don’t accept that trade off.

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Weird flex, but ok.

The way this reads is that you're focused on the quality of women over the quantity of women.

I would suggest making sure that you're clear that you're referring to time spent versus implying that other people are looking for a large quantity of partners

Yes the “issue” at hand is time. Absolutely. Not say nor insuating other.

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What in the mindless ramblings of an attention starved man child is going on here?

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Haha thanks D1 💃🏻

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Perhaps you’re looking in the wrong places. The environment matters!

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Wth is this trade off you keep referring to? Tbh I have a hard time trying to understand the root cause or even the problem at hand with the way you’re communicating it.

Let’s start with defining:

- The so called trade off
- This quantity over quality, the quality and quantity of what and for whom? Are you saying women want more men at the same time? They want more money from you?

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Are you messing around while you’re away??

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I’m always committed when I’m on a relationship

What work hours are you putting in? Is your schedule always going to be limited?

For the foreseeable future yep. I travel a lot. The travel kills my personal time.

Where are you located!

DMV general area

Are you dating much younger? Because plenty of divorced 40-something parents are in this exact situation in my experience. You just make the best with the time you have.

Okay but what does the communication look like between dates, and what are the dates themselves like? I think that the vast majority of professional women are in a similar position, so I’m wondering if there’s something else going on there. Scheduling issues seem to be par for the course at this stage of life tbh.

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Are you quality?

You keep saying quantity vs quality are you referring to quantity as in finances?

Because usually quantity vs quality has to do with number of people someone is seeing at the same time.

And some people want quantity (dating multiple people) and some want quality( dating one great person)

No time. Quality time va quantity time.

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