Anyone take leave for a month or so before giving birth? I didn’t for the first and it was terrible, wish I did. Curious how that process went for folks. I’m thankfully have a healthy pregnancy thus far but got so crushed to the point of exhaustion during the first pregnancy that I cannot go through that again.

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I live in California, so I was able to takeoff the four weeks before using the state disability leave. My son ended up coming a week early so really it was more like three weeks, which was just enough time for me to feel like I was less stressed and kind of had my life together before the baby came lol.

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I took a month off before and I’m so glad I did. Pay was covered at 100% under STD. Prior to taking leave, I had been billing 50-60 hrs/week for months. I was mentally and physically exhausted. Talk to your OB and ask for a note if you feel like you can’t perform your job duties. Then work with your HR or STD provider.

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So long ago this may not be helpful but congratulations. So happy for you. I waited until I went into labor to maximize my time with my baby. My midsize firm let me work a bit from home in the early 90's so I could rest as needed. So much is unique to you, your body, your support system and your options. Do what is best for you. Again, congratulations!

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I took off a month before. And I got to chill, nest, and sleep.

I took two weeks with my first but my second came two weeks early. Would highly recommend taking time off before!

Ask your doc to help you w a note. I would have taken the time if it occurred to me.

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