Do you struggle with your idea of what's stylish constantly changing? I get new clothes, and suddenly my old clothes aren't as appealing. I'm just trying to understand if this expiration date on liking outfits that you once loved is normal or if this is just my ADHD playing out in my wardrobe life, too.

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Haha you're not alone. Clothes are kind of like moods, what excites you one month can suddenly feel “meh” the next, especially when something new enters your closet. That “expiration date” on loving clothes isn’t just your ADHD, it’s a universal thing, but neurodivergence can definitely add an extra layer of novelty-seeking or restlessness to the mix.

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You’re young and trying to figure things out. Chasing the latest thing doesn’t make sense in the long run. Do some exploring on styles and go for an overall look. I’m older and know exactly what looks good on me, age appropriate but interesting, how to use accessories, making sure things FIT well.

Whatever you do, get off social media to influence your decisions.

This is why I don’t purge things 🫠

Trends don’t last. Collared shirts and dress pants do.

I do not care. If it’s clean, pressed, and conservative enough to make my senior stakeholders feel comfortable, I wear it.

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