Does your spouse also work in IB? My wife and I met while we were in College and both of us are in the same industry. As we think about starting a family, it’s hard to imagine both of us working long hours. However, either of us want to take a step back so we are kind of stuck. Anyone here had a similar situation?

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Both of you should change industry and prioritize what is important in life. Forget IB

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Oof this is a tough one to navigate, tread carefully, lots of resentment can come from this, this industry doesn't take kind to people who take a break even for parenthood.

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