Feeling full of irritation and frustration. It is a shame how a person can go above and beyond expectations, but drop the ball on one nonessential matter, and it's Katie-bar-the-door! So, here is my question-do I say something back and express my frustration over the matter or let it go?

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Let it go and stop going above and beyond expectations.

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Exactly. This happens in my workplace, too. One person in particular is rude, passive-aggressive, and condescending toward others, but then turns around and makes a superficial gesture like bringing muffins to our weekly meeting and expects everyone to be her friend. It is frustrating.

That can be a tough one, generally speaking I think it's good to put things on the record. It may not change what has happened or what has been said, but it could affect the outcome of things going forward. But, if it will inflame a situation, sometimes it's like the old saying, discretion is the better part of valor.

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This is so good. I am thinking that documentation is the key to everything.

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Let it go and don't do any extras.

I would just let it go OP. These days I am not about to let anything disrupt my inner peace so let it go and move on.

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