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Hi Team,
Hope you guys are doing well. I am planning to join Kyndryl on band 7b for cybersecurity domain. Want to know how is the environment there in terms of job security, wlb and hike? There are mixed reviews all over the places reg Kyndryl so posting here to get insight form you.Kyndryl Inc.
Also anything else you would like to add is good for me to decide as I have to choose between Accenture and Kyndryl (I was with Accenture and know what I will be getting and work there).
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He stayed with you till the time he needed you, now he might have come across options that he has a future with. Understand one thing, other than your parents, every relationship is a clear give and take. If you are giving something, make sure to get something in return. Emotions are used to get the most out of the other person. Women are driven by hornones, hence emotions. Be crystal clear in what you want. Dont just give in just coz the guy seems emotional. Guys are just good actors till the time they get what they want from you. They are not emotional.
Move away from him, thats what i will say. Not worth your time or energy or emotions. And if you are into marriage, find a guy that is into it. And if you are not looking for anything serious, dont feel bad when they behave this way. Switch off your emotion button. Its difficult for us women, but definitely possible
Completely changed, he used to take care of all my small things. Daily calls/ regular updates etc had gone. I fought with him saying you don’t give me enough time, he said I am busy preparing for interviews. He cracked another opportunity at a good firm. Now even after joining it things remained the same. We started everything at a condition that my parent will not agree for him so we’ll separate out before marriage. He was okay with it. But now this boy after getting a good job says i am thinking about my future that you have assured we don’t have together. So I can’t make changes in my attitude. I am focusing on my things. This comes suddenly in picture after everything was going well for 1 yr. what do you girls think?
But anyway you have decided to not be with him in future. So better to get yourself out of this relationship ASAP, as the other person is also clearly trying to move on. Its the best you can do for your future partner as well as to yourself, saving yourself from all the emotional trauma you might have otherwise.
I mean he was the one initially when I used to say let’s end this we have no future together, but he stayed. He said let’s keep it till your or my wedding gets fixed. But now I’m shocked to see his behaviour.
Leave him. This is such a red flag.