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I definitely wouldn’t attend a party where I was being solicited for money. That’s not fun. And it feels like I’m being used rather than being invited out of pure friendship
What donations? An LLC is very distinctly not a non-profit. If you're looking to raise Capital, do an actual round of investing presentations if you feel confident in what you're doing but don't hit up people at a party, that's so weird.
I don't see how this would be uncomfortable, people ask for donations for random organizations for their birthday all the time! If you're a facebook user I'm sure you've gotten one of those "For my birthday this year I'm asking for donations for ABC organization" So why not ask people for support? If they care they'll either do it or at least help you find people who can. No harm no foul. As long as they don't feel obligated and any contribution is able to happen organically.
Combining the 2 could absolutely work, if done tactfully. It's all about making the event fun and celebratory while casually mentioning the new venture. Don't make it your focus. People are there to Celebrate You- and a new business venture is just one aspect that people can feel more connected with you because you're sharing it with them so giving it a "if you feel inclined" approach will still let them know you appreciate them being there regardless.
So good vibe and a clear straight to the point and gentle ask will go a long way you only need to mention it once provide details and leave it at that. Having a good idea of who is most likely to donate will help so you don't mention the donation too soon but can wait when a majority of them have arrived.
Having a subtle donation box discreetly placed with a gentle sign or a QR code option to keep things light for those interested in contributing. And also providing some merch or business cards with the QR code gives them a chance to donate later or pass it along to someone they know.
Key things to think about:
What does your budget for this party look like?
Who do you plan on inviting? Strictly Friends and family? or a mix of friends, family and potential supporters? Open to the public? Or even BYO +1.
Depending on who you invite is very important to know what kind of venue to have. You want to pick a place that suits both the celebratory and business vibe. You want to decorate it and fun festive birthday decorations but use maybe the color palette theme you used for your business branding.
And for the program have a fun intro when the majority of guests are there have a casual pitch about the new business thanking everybody for showing up give them a little narrative on why you started your business what drove you to it and connect it with what that means for you now at the age you are or something just remember to show how much it means that people are celebrating your birthday with you and that you're happy to have the chance to share this big news with them and then get back to the partying.
If you have any branded goodies or merch you could offer a giveaway if you do some games or something have your marches prizes or contact other businesses to see if they're willing to donate for a raffle to make it more engaging. You could offer bingo for a dollar a card or if you have some people that are like what's in it for me you can offer a piece of the business like equity or something. You can have them write down their email address and put them on the email list where they can get updates frequently about what's going on with the business, make him feel like they have some kind of voice like when you want to try something new or add something you could run it by them first make them like Insiders. Some people like to feel like they're valued in that way. But it's hard to say what direction you could go in with that without knowing what your business is.
But if you want to go with the alternative, you can flip the scenario. if you want to focus on your business and less about your birthday There are also other organizations that help with events like this and offer casino night theme for example and everything made will go towards your business fund.
Whichever you choose good luck! I wish you all the best and just remember not to blur the lines. You can only focus on one while highlighting the other but not both because that would be very uncomfortable and can create weird tensions after that.
You totally understand what I was saying, and I love that. This was fabulous feedback, and I highly agree that people constantly mention donations for a fundraiser on their birthday. But I am not actually begging for money for the business. It’s just I thought it would be a cute way to get the word out and celebrate my new venture which is part of me. I think that the people who think it’s tacky are probably a little older
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Gotta agree with everyone else, it’s a bit tacky to ask people to fund a for profit business. If anyone asks what you want for your bday I think it’s okay to send an Amazon wishlist for your new business but that’s only if anyone asks. Don’t be going around sharing it when no one’s asked.
Thanks for mentioning the Amazon gift list. I totally forgot about that.
And if all else fails, you could always get them liquored up first by having an open bar🍻
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If my friend wanted me to go to a party they were hosting to showcase their business was and get support- I would go.
It would feel grossly tacky if it was their birthday party and I’d feel like they just wanted me to their birthday party for $ for their business and not because they want me there because I’m their friend.
If you want both- have both.
Don’t combine the 2.
FYI the invitation will indicate it’s a launch party. I appreciate the feedback