Hi girls.... i know this is not the right platform but I want some inputs. I am an orphan and living with my two elder brothers. The eldest brother is married and he is absolutely unbothered about us(chota bhai n me) since his marriage. Earlier he was very caring and nice to us. His wife also doesn't treat us well. Two days back, I got a call from bhabhi's sister(she has a nice bond with me)and she told me that my brother is spending a lot of money on bhabhi's family.

Yes you should move out , people do and have to change after marriage, their family unit will become his first priority, if you are working you all should move to separate home else it will cause unnecessary strain in relationships your's with siblings as well as their own marriage .Better to understand he is not your parent but a sibling with his own life dreams and family now .And you are not the only family he has he has an equal family on the wife's side too I know changes are difficult to accept but you need to grow up and understand .

Firstly please don't call yourself orphan. You have your two brothers with you even if eldest one is married.

Secondly , even if your bhabhi wasn't a b*t*h, you and your middle brother should have lived elsewhere after their marriage. Because marriage between any two people regardless of how good they are brings lot of shit through it.

Living apart but with dignity and love in your heart is better than living together and dealing with their shit.

Later on if one of you (you and your middle brother) get married the other one should live closeby and offer suport to the married couple if needed and vice versa to maintain sanity of relationships

Hope that helps. Live with dignity, respect and love in your heart. Learn to ignore other shit things like bhabhis mom side people. (And may be herself!) Cheers

No one can change from so caring to no penny given unless they already had in mind that its just burden or ur sister in law have given him some sort of dhamki. That made him ignore you guys.

Don’t believe anything u heard from third person about ur brother unless u have already verified it. Miscommunication might cause issues that can never be solved in lifetime.

And rightly said above that if u are old enough for job have one more out of the city and the second brother may or maybe come with u but u move ahead in life.

There will be time its only u for u.

I think you should leave the house after making your arrangements. I was believing blindly on my elder brother till the day he betrayed me. My Parents and both brothers betrayed me for the ancestral property.

To continue further on this, my bhabhi and her mother speak so badly about us on phone calls. Ek ghar me rehte hue hame kisi baat ki bhanak tak lagne nhi di. Also my second elder brother is also working hard and contributing equally at home but his money also not his. I am emotionally attached to my eldest brother and always wish his small care and attention since I lost my mother 6 yrs back. What do I do? How do I confront this? Shall we siblings leave the house??

Are you working?? If yes move to nearest ofc location.
You could DM me I can share my number to you .. As both being strangers you can always share with me may be I can help you