I accepted an offer yesterday, but I’ve been feeling incredibly anxious ever since. I have this nagging feeling that I settled too quickly and missed out on a better package. It’s hard to stay positive about landing a new job when I’m so preoccupied with what I might have left behind. Has anyone else felt buyer's remorse with a job offer? How do you stop dwelling on the numbers once the deal is done?

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Unless you can’t pay your bills, you may always feel you deserve more. I never worried about that. You don’t want to be the highest paid, you’ll be the first to be let go. Someone will always be paid more and paid less than you.

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Kinda late now, but honestly if you are so focused on just the money, then this is probably a job you will either be bored with or burned out pretty quickly.

Yeah, that’s called greed.

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