I retired from my last job to care for a family member after their stroke and am now ready to rejoin the workforce. How should I answer in an interview if asked whether I contacted my previous employer about openings? What is an effective way to explain that I prefer working elsewhere, even in a similar role?

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Do they normally ask that in interviews? i just feel like that would be an odd question to ask. If they do ask that I would just be honest.

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While I haven't had that asked.. apparently it's common but that's so weird to me...

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Although I would find that question rather odd. I can see the interviewer isn’t really testing your loyalty to your old employer; they’re checking how you make career decisions.

Keep it professional, short, and positive — you don’t need to over-explain.

Possible response:

While I truly valued my time with my previous employer, I felt this was a good opportunity to explore new organizations where I can grow and contribute in a fresh environment. I’m excited about the role here because it aligns with my skills and career goals. (Maybe be more specific with whatever the company you're interviewing for - mention their specific company values and tie some things in)

**Don't criticize your old company — even if you had reasons for not wanting to return. Keep the focus on what excites you about the new opportunity.

**Shift the conversation back to them — frame it around why their role and company are a better fit for you now.

**The best way to explain why you didn’t go back is to position it as an intentional choice for growth and new opportunities, not as a rejection of the old place.

Hope that helps!

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Good luck to your interviews or future ones. 😊

Also don't ever say if you did or didn't contact your old employer, they don't need to know that

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