I'm a new grad who just started my first engineering job three weeks ago. My team of 6 developers barely speaks to anyone. They're just heads-down coding all day. I've tried saying good morning and asking about weekend plans, but all I get are one-word responses. How can I connect with my teammates? I want to fit in without being a pest.

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I used to work on a team like that.. You need to be respectful because some people just like to be quiet and focus on work. However, you could try to learn about their interests, hobbies, or what they like to do, just so you have something to talk about. So, I had to learn everything about Harry Potter and the game called Civilization VI because this was something I loved talking about.

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It sounds like fitting in with that team just means sitting with your head down and doing your job. Unfortunately, engineers can sometimes not be the friendliest of people. You'll probably make a lot more progress not trying to push social interactions.

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Some people are just like that honestly. You kind of just have to learn how to adjust to the vibe of the team. It sounds like they are more of a head down get your work done kind of team.

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Don’t rely on your coworkers to be your friend. I made that mistake when I was a fresh graduate. Your goal is to keep diplomacy with your coworkers. If some of them are friendly and wants to hangout with you, that is great and it will blossom eventually. But look for your friends in a social setting!!

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