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Honestly you have to set boundaries to protect your marriage. And if it’s your job or your marriage - leave.
Sit tight and plan your exit. Your marriage is worth more than a big paycheck.
Maybe I’m wrong for assuming that you’re in a heterosexual relationship but I feel like men are way less understanding than women when it comes to demanding jobs.
I’ve definitely felt like the job puts strain on my marriage sometimes but I feel like it would be easier if the roles were reversed.
You make an insane amount of money, if it’s not worth it then leave.
Yeah my partner is used to me working a lot and is very supportive (that said, I’m at a more chill firm that some of the folks on here, not sure how he’d feel if I was billing 2300 a year), but if I never logged off for 4-5 hours on a weekend for quality time he’d definitely get frustrated. You can be a good biglaw lawyer and block off blocks of time to be with your family.
Cannot recommend leaving enough.
When I conceived my second I was working such terrible hours and my marriage was in such a rough place because of it my husband actually asked if it was his. We are working parents, but he was the primary parent for my oldest because of my hours, sometimes not getting home til 3a then back at the office by 8a.
Leaving big law was great for my marriage and my mental health.
Huge proponent of it.