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Hey guys,
I got selected to HCL Technologies , had submitted my documents and all the required information also updated my joining form in discover HCl website. It also shows that my bgv is completed but I have'nt recieved myoffer letter it has been more than a week. I also have a service agreement to fill it requires my date of joining which I think will be in my offer letter. Can any one help me and say how will this move from now.
Anybody working in EY GDS in MS Dynamics CRM ?
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That sounds really hard for both of you. When I went through something similar, what helped was just letting my sibling know I was there for them, without pushing too hard. Sometimes just sitting with them, bringing them a snack, or inviting them for a walk can help break the ice. Remind him it’s okay to feel down, but also encourage small steps like updating his resume or reaching out to friends, for when he’s ready. Mostly, just keep showing up and letting him know he’s not alone; that support can make a big difference.
Hard situation on both sides. I’ve experienced family members going through a rough patch, and I know it’s not easy for them, but the helplessness of wanting to help, but it not being accepted hurts. Without knowing you or him, I think one thing to do is just let them know you are there when they are ready. I wouldn’t be taking it well either in his shoes. So many people are getting laid off and are in bad situations because of it.
This sounds like a major depressive episode. I suggest his seeking the care of a compassionate therapist and also a psychiatrist.
Try talking to him. Some people put all of their identity into their jobs and losing it can be super destabilizing. Check in on him, see how he's doing, maybe take him for a meal or something.
There's nothing slight about it, that is an extreme reaction in every sense. I understand both of your feelings - his for being despondent, you for being worried. I don't think there's much you can really do about this. You can encourage him all you want, but if he's not willing or ready to take steps to improve his situation, it won't matter.