Saw a post about not responding and made me think why do you (guy/girl) ghost. Has it happened to you or have you done it before & why?

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Because they are immature. I've always just straight up said I don't want to hang out anymore. Idk, something about getting a bunch of messages from someone without responding just feels sad.

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I do it when I feel no chemistry with the guy and he floods you with texts... in hindsight definitely could have handled it better but was likely overwhelmed back then

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Why don’t people be mature adults and just let the other party know they’re not interested. It’s not going to kill them and it’s provides some closure. Don’t be a jerk.

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I think it’s perfectly fine if it’s just after one or two dates. After that it’s rude, at least respond sporadically and then ghost

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Sorry to hear that IT1, that’s not cool of them. Thats definitely past the ghosting stage

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Same reason most people never get accurate feedback at work. People don’t like confrontation so easier to avoid a situation/person. I personally never do it, but have had it done to me. Pretty quick to pick up on it so as soon as it happens you are dead to me.

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Happened to me last year. She didn’t want to actually come out and break up, so she just ignored me for a month before I called her out on it.

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Hasn’t happened to me and haven’t done it. Not sure I would really care if a girl did this to me.

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