A curious thing about myself. I am attracted to men who are feminine but not flaming ; yet I'm also into women who are Zaftig (think ancient fertility idols) with a dominant personality. Bi people - Is this usual or am I an exception that proves the rule?

This last week of overnights in the ED felt longer than usual...things feel like they're getting really bad again

I feel like I’ve lost myself since joining McK. My whole world has become about work. I love my job but I’m not the same person I started and I feel I don’t connect with my friends and family the way I use to. I’m not sure if I’ve grown, or lost a part of myself. Is this growing up or do I need to make a career change?

Those who joined pune or Hyderabad location as Analyst on 8th August , how is it going ? Work pressure or training what is happening there ? I have joined pune but there is no one in oune location so Wanted to know if anyone joined before me then let's connect

Like this post if you want to TP one of Sir Martin's houses with me.

What should you do if they don’t put your name on the credits of work that is yours? Anybody’s had this experience?

Hi Fishes

I have 11 years of experience in PeopleSoft finance and I am looking for a switch in workday finance. May I kindly ask what learnings are must to get the workday interviews cleared?
Also Please let me know in case if there is any opening for workday where they are looking for any candidate from other ERP experience and ready to cross train on workday.

Hi Fishes,

One of my friend is looking for change. She is having an offer from Tech Mahindra and LTI. LTI is paying 3lpa more then Tech Mahindra.

Which one is better between Tech Mahindra and LTI ?

Hi All, what is the process for id card as a new joiner in CTS

What can be the expected CTC for below YOE and tech stack?

Tech stack: Angular 2+, AngularJS, jQuery, Node.JS(ExpressJS), MongoDB. Hands on experience with AWS and Docker (no certifications).

YOE: 6

I’m mid 30s F. Recently started seeing this guy, where he is “good enough”. Good conversations, decent time together, he has a good heart, but nothing about him shines. - not fit (I work out everyday and play sports), meh social skills (he doesn’t have best friends, just few he hangs out with), bit less energy than me.
There is a feeling in me that says “he’s going to be a comfortable life partner” and “he is just good enough, but if I break up I won’t find someone for a long time”
Do I stay?

Interested in connecting with other play-based preschools housed in public schools.

 I heard a commercial on the radio for Verizon that said something to the effect that parents are now learning how to lesson plan. Are any of you off the hook for lesson planning? Just wondering because I’m over here busting my butt!

Hi anyone from CGI Canada here. Need referral . Please let me know if you can help.

I have got an offer from NTT managed services. Is this completely different from NTT data ?
What is the maximum salary that we can expect for soc analyst profile for a 3y exp

Don’t suppose anybody would be interested in buying a set of PaxEast badges for Friday and Saturday? My roommate can’t make it and I’m left holding the bag. I’m out of DC, but we also have our megabus

Queer life in Hawaii? Anyone have any experiences living there?

Has anyone been with someone with a really small one? What was your experience like? I recently started seeing someone with the tiniest one I’ve ever seen (like an inch). I’m ok with it, but he’s clearly insecure and I want to be understanding

Any ladies at DU this week?

My friend decided to have her bachelorette party out of town during Pride weekend. I’m torn because I love both her and Pride lol what would you do:

1. Skip Pride and go to bach party
2. Say no to bach party and stay for Pride

Tbh I already made a decision but am looking for validation 😬

Moving to Seattle soon. I could use dates or friends 😅

Kinda bummed. I’ve been single for 6 years (I’m 31 now). I live in ptown and talk to guys in Boston on tinder. Was talking to a guy for about a week who is my type. I asked if he wanted to FaceTime tonight and he said sure but caveated that he isn’t into long distance (ptown to Boston) and that we would most likely stick to chatting. Idk what’s wrong with me. Everyone tells me I’m a catch but guys I’m attracted to are never into me 😭 just needed to vent

Thoughts on preferred pronouns in your email signature?

Curious what anyone thinks about cologne? Is it a turn on? I am not really into it.. but I just got a whiff of this dude at the gym and the cologne did something to me 🥰 It was really subtle. I tend to just like the way a man smells (not body odor but just natural scent) and don’t usually like it covered up, but wow this guy tonight 🥵 I might might buy some but i figured it would be gay to ask him “what are you wearing” because that prob isn’t something the bros at the gym do.

I feel like I’ve lost myself since joining McK. My whole world has become about work. I love my job but I’m not the same person I started and I feel I don’t connect with my friends and family the way I use to. I’m not sure if I’ve grown, or lost a part of myself. Is this growing up or do I need to make a career change?

How’s it like being gay in Singapore?

Ryan Murphy is the new Aaron Spelling. Big rich producer making money off of cheesy shlock. I guess you can’t take the Indiana out of the boy. Heart’s in the right place though. Bless his heart.

Solo trip to Puerto Rico. Any recs? Thanks fam.

Went and caught the feels. Went and got real hurt.

I could be your next husband. Slide in my DMs to find out.

things to do in Vegas? favorite restaurants, hotels, spas, etc?

is your company celebrating pride or is everything on hold right now?

Any fish in SF

I know this isn’t a marriage therapy bowl, but my husband has a really terrible tendency of saying things like “you’re being really mean” and completely shutting down during a disagreement when i objectively am not being mean, just truthful or vocal about how i feel about something. It’s a really convenient argument for him because it enables him to either be the victim and me the villian, or forces me to concede my stance and not reach a true resolution. Any tips on dealing with the irrational?

Almost midnight here and I'm cleaning my medicine cabinet so I can reboot having a regular skin-care routine. I'm listening to one of my favorite musicals, "Ragtime", specifically the song "He Wanted to Say". Living 9 time zones away from home out of the US and watching the BLM movement there, unable to do anything concrete about it from here - this song I've listened to countless times, today about brought me to tears.

I really don’t mean this to virtue signal - just wanted to share a moment.

Anyone ever visited Africa? Particularlly West Africa? If so where you able to be out and feel safe? Any advise? I really want to visit but am scared bc the culture around being gay isnt well received