Kinda bummed. I’ve been single for 6 years (I’m 31 now). I live in ptown and talk to guys in Boston on tinder. Was talking to a guy for about a week who is my type. I asked if he wanted to FaceTime tonight and he said sure but caveated that he isn’t into long distance (ptown to Boston) and that we would most likely stick to chatting. Idk what’s wrong with me. Everyone tells me I’m a catch but guys I’m attracted to are never into me 😭 just needed to vent

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Have you considered moving to Boston? That could solve some of your problems.

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You have a mortgage but that doesn’t mean you can’t sell and move if you want to. Seems obvious, but I’m mentioning it only becuase I know some people that feel like a 30 year mortgage is an actual 30 year obligation to stay in/keep the same house, and it’s not.

It’s the middle of winter baby boo…in four months you’ll be lathered up in a Speedo heading to afternoon tea. Enjoy the downtime, spend a few weeks in NYC, Boston, DC and see what that does for you

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Move to any major city. It is as simple as that. You may be a catch, but you're not accessible, and with a population under 3000, Provincetown doesn't offer many options.

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I’m gonna be in Ptown for a few weeks this summer. I’m not single but always down to hang with townies.

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Wow Ptown is like utopia for gays. Do you like living there?

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Awww i hope you get there soon!

Dude, move to Boston. It's better here and then just live in ptown during the summer.

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Dude, presumptuous of you that they can afford two residences. Most people aren’t at that economic level. Dude.

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I’m not sure I understand. He didn’t say he wasn’t into you. Just not into long distance situations. How far are the two cities apart anyway?

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I mean it’s one way to catch someone’s attentfor sure. But I think ultimately it’s not enough for a worthwhile relationship. At least for me…at my age or stage in my life.

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