Kinda bummed. I’ve been single for 6 years (I’m 31 now). I live in ptown and talk to guys in Boston on tinder. Was talking to a guy for about a week who is my type. I asked if he wanted to FaceTime tonight and he said sure but caveated that he isn’t into long distance (ptown to Boston) and that we would most likely stick to chatting. Idk what’s wrong with me. Everyone tells me I’m a catch but guys I’m attracted to are never into me 😭 just needed to vent

I recently asked everyone’s age filters on dating apps and there were some mentions of fear of baggage and that’s why you don’t date older than X. What baggage are you afraid of? Ex spouses? Kids from prior relationships? What is it?

Last night I slept over my boyfriend’s apt. We are sexually active together but this time he woke up at 4/5am and started fingering me and eating me out. I was somewhat awake but I don’t know how to feel about this. Thoughts?

How to handle your own procrastination? Any tips/advice?

In my 40s, here in the larger NYC area for a couple weeks visiting family. Male, athletic. If anyone's interested in chatting (admittedly in a playful mood currently, so that's my current preference), drop me a DM.

Any single women who want to chat. Bi/lesbian only. Philly/New York. Age 31

So many guys lurk in this bowl even if it is ‘desi ladies’. The minute I respond to any post related to dating, multiple guys try to slide into DMs acting innocent as if they are just ‘curious’ 🤷🏻‍♀️ 🤦🏻‍♀️

Any desi f looking for a white knight to save her from an arranged marriage?

How to deal with people flirting with you at work.
I’m married, and one of my coworkers flirts with me. Nothing super overt, but definitely not professional. We’re good friends and work together constantly because we’re on the same client, so I don’t want to make it awkward. Do I just do nothing and let it go? It is mostly just odd I’m not super offended, but I’m also clearly uninterested!

Anyone waiting for the 2nd season of indian matchmaking??

Which dating app you recommend to use?

(Preferably free to low cost)
For dating and relationships!

I got reprimanded by a man for having an uninspired point of view of a conference call. He then gave me his inspired POV...which was exactly the same. When I pointed that out he said, “huh. Maybe.”

Looking to date someone cute!
Dm if you are younger than 24 and in live in Toronto.
Looking for females btw lol

This Indian matchmaking show is interesting...love how the first girl is like “my partner needs to fit in my life” 😳🙄😳🙄🤭

Anyone from Los Angeles here? And any luck with dating in the LA area?

Haha this is going to sound pretty shallow, but are there any young guys that are on good looking/masculine/dl-ish side looking to chat/snap? 22M here

I feel like I wouldn't get many tips as a server because I'm a guy, is this really true or am I just making it up?

Plan on visiting SFO this August and wanted to check if any F is up for drinks or dinner spend some quality time. Male 34 , tall 5 11, brown and happy to message and set up some time if we find each other interesting.

35M. Friend zoned after one date. What am I doing wrong? I met her at a baby shower. We talked/text regular for about a month or so because I was traveling for work. Finally went on a date about two weeks ago, a week after I told her I like her and said she never thought about us being romantic. Today I got the official friend zoned text.

How much does an insurance placement specialist make in nyc? Thanks in advance for your help.

Currently a Wealth Advisor for Citi but I honestly hate it here with a passion it’s the worst company I’ve ever worked for in my life and I’ve been in Wealth Management in the banking channel for over a decade. Series 7, Series 63, Life, CFP, ChFC, and soon to have my MBA with a focus in Mergers & Acquisitions. I’m look to enter another area of Finance at this point instead of starting over somewhere else from scratch, but not sure what direction to go. Interested in Investment Banking or M&A.

What is process of background verification and do they check cibil as well for the onboarding process?

I am stranded in a foreign country, was traveling for personal reasons, because AA cancelled my flight citing weather concerns but is flying other flights at the same time. Is there a way for me to 1. Get an alternate flight that is not painful. 2. Escalate and get compensation? Thank you.

Got a lot of “undeliverable” packages lately on Amazon. Anyone with similar issue?

Hi All,
I am looking for a career switch to Business analyst role. Please let me know if any opening.
Recently completed MBA WX in Finance & Leadership and strategic Management from NMIMS, Mumbai.
Total experience in tech role : 4.5 yrs.

Just started IB. Prior to this I was in valuations at deloitte. Today I worked 11 hours and im getting texts from coworkers now. I already feel burnt out. Can someone help guide me and explain to me how people do this?

I hear that many companies from Europe are hiring talent intensively. Any thoughts or websites?

A team of 2 starting a very niche consulting firm want me to join and lead the first engagement. I’m very confident in them & the product/market fit. Do I ask for an ownership stake?

I look better with mask 😔

Is RPA a bubble and will soon fade away? How much valuable is it as a skill set?

If a headhunter approaches someone for c suite position but you know a friend who knows key decision maker/chairman. Do you just bypass headhunter? Its in round 3 shortlist.

Anyone with Good experience in C/C++ or C# or Angular.js or SQL Developer wants referral for job switch Please DM me.

What’s up DC?

Any fish in SF

Went and caught the feels. Went and got real hurt.

is your company celebrating pride or is everything on hold right now?

Why are the lesbian bars so few in the US? I am loving the only lesbian bar in Houston, but I need variety. Can you actually meet girls well at a traditional gay bar? F/25/Houston here

Who here have abs 😬

Who’s in Dallas at ACT?? I missed the networking time and want to grab drinks

Lesbian fish in LA or staffed on a project there? Dranks? 🥂

Ryan Murphy is the new Aaron Spelling. Big rich producer making money off of cheesy shlock. I guess you can’t take the Indiana out of the boy. Heart’s in the right place though. Bless his heart.

Holidays can be tough for our community - I hope everyone is able to find some moments of self-care and happiness today!

Being forced onto banking project with no finance background or cultural leanings—tips? 🥴

How’s it like being gay in Singapore?

I could be your next husband. Slide in my DMs to find out.

Queer life in Hawaii? Anyone have any experiences living there?

May be moving to Philly soon. What’s the lgbt scene like? I’m a 27m. Newly single and eager to jump back into the dating life

Anyone ever visited Africa? Particularlly West Africa? If so where you able to be out and feel safe? Any advise? I really want to visit but am scared bc the culture around being gay isnt well received

Thoughts on preferred pronouns in your email signature?

I recently joined Grindr……. 😵‍💫

Hi everyone,

29F in my second year of business school and going on exchange CBS in NYC for 5 months. I want to have a fun experience, meet other WLW, queers, and take advantage of what the city has to offer. I will be living in midtown west.
Where should i hang out? the bars? night club? gym for work out?

Solo trip to Puerto Rico. Any recs? Thanks fam.