As a queer person, I feel incredibly alone in my workplace and neighborhood. It feels like we truly are a minority, since I don’t have even one other friend or acquaintance in the community. How do you find your friends/ your people when you don't have access to them within your social circle, and you don't really have the time to go out of your way to find people outside the circle?

Does anyone know if the Costco on New York Ave. has any good Bourbons on sale right now?

It's more than 90 days and I have not received my fnf ,even though I have served my notice period,whenever I am following up they say that the team is working on that , even though I have looped higher management like vp, senior manager but not getting any help.
Is there a way i could get my fnf amount back.

Anyone up for speed dating in the comments? 👀 Please no trolling, afterall this is the 30s bowl...
For each of the following describe yourself + the person you're looking for.

1. ASL
2. Something serious/casual
3. Physical description - as detailed or as general as you'd like 🤣
4. Interests/hobbies
5. Personality traits
6. Values
7. Non- negotiables
8. Whatever else....

Let's make some connections!

TMI… 7 weeks and have been struggling with constipation (also 2 months post egg retrieval = lots of hormones). Have tried stool softeners, laxatives, Metamucil… now it is literally just tiny bits of mucus coming out, no normal BM. Has been 10 days since I took a laxative. Has this happened to you? What kind of doctor do I even call or what can I do?

My latest LinkedIn annoyance is the people posting about their kids wearing their company swag or seeing their company logo/name out and about (as in sponsorships).

Hi I am khushbu chauhan from Lucknow.i hve done BSc frm IT college lucknow my professional interest r in bpo telecom nd operation World. I am looking for a job in backend office chat / email process currently looking for work from home profile. thnkuh nd please suggest me some jobs. Also need ur likes

Hi Sharks,
We have a huge openings for Java Full Stack and Java backend Mircoservices Dev's
DM me to get referrals

Any hidden perks or benefits of working at Amazon?

Forza Ferrari! Let’s go!! 1-2 in Round 2!

Hey can anyone shed light on the Technical Accounting Consulting group at RSM compared to Big 4 (EY FAAS) with regards to work life balance / middle market client demands / flexibility?

How many ME jobs did you apply to before landing your current position?

Do you typically apply to jobs that you have are missing some of the qualifications for? For example: Is it acceptable to apply for jobs where you have 70% of the qualifications? Where is the % threshold of not getting considered?

I just left a very toxic work place.
The crazy thing is they were just named the best local municipality to work for. It's upsetting. They advertise a "culture" but don'tapply it. It felt like a used car sales pitch, I was sold a dream but given junk. I am constantly replaying moments. I have read so many books and everything leads to they were the problem. How do I recover from this?

Any insights on Ares Management NYC office? Looking at private equity role there, wondering about firm culture, what differences to expect coming from a consulting firm, etc

Did anyone switch From 10 years consulting to B2B sales, how was the experience?
Which role did you start from?
Was it worth the switch? If so, how?

If you're looking to make a 4 day weekend, is it better to take friday and monday off or monday and tuesday?

Has anyone given NatWest screening test for big data pyspark?? What kind of questions are there?

Has any obtained an associated GC position (general) from a big law specialty position such as tax? Any recommendations on how to present yourself as competent?

things to do in Vegas? favorite restaurants, hotels, spas, etc?

things to do in Vegas? favorite restaurants, hotels, spas, etc?

I dated someone 15 years older than me and he always lectured me about what did I do wrong. From small things like where to squeeze ketchup on my plate to big things like how to live my life and pivot to a career that his “friends” do so well in right now. Almost everything I did or said he’d follow with some criticism. I ghosted him after another lunch date full of such lectures.

Are poppers bad? Are they frying our brains? Post your thots below

Any married gay couple give (or planning to give) red envelopes during Lunar New Year?

Facebook: we know everything about you and do hyper-targeted ads based on a comment you made in a post or message once
Also Facebook: DONATE BLOOD NOW (even as an out gay man who opted out of these)

I am lesbian . I was talking to this gal then she stopped cold turkey. I’m striking out on dating apps. I’m in my thirties. I get hit on by men but I’m just not into it… 🤷‍♀️

Best lesbian bars in nyc?

Any fish in SF

How many of you are in an interracial relationship? And what are yours and your partner's ethnicities?Just wanted to do a quick poll :)

Only recently started being out/comfortable being bi, but overcoming a lot of self stigma. Others seem so secure in the LGBT world already, it leaves me terrified how/where to begin. Help?

Noah Beck from TikTok is not good looking, right? I don’t know why everyone treats him like a god.

30 yo gent here... I need to start going on dates with people who travel more ... this going on dates with people in the same city every week has been a big of a struggle. Anyone single!?

Well 😒 accidentally gave up my rose on hinge to the wrong dude. Was saving it for “the one.” Now this guy keeps texting me. He seems okay - I figure I should prob at least do a coffee date. (Or, Maybe a make out session and some heavy petting in the corner at starbucks? Is that still a thing for first coffee dates?) Will also wear the cologne im buying this weekend! I don’t know how long it takes for my rose to grow back on the app.

Xtina’s new Mulan release 😍 and a spanish version too... Dios mío!

Was hanging out with a friend in town. We met on Bumble but he just wanted to be friends. He has dated several guys since we met and we continue to hangout as friends (cont)

I have an interview with McKinsey on Monday, any tips/suggestions?

How’s it like being gay in Singapore?

Anyone have experience with Keeps? Does it work? (M 30’s here)

Lesbian fish in LA or staffed on a project there? Dranks? 🥂

Thoughts on preferred pronouns in your email signature?