30s & 40s Singles

Even senior clients are ghosting now. What has the world come to?

Is it me or does it feel like no one is really interested in getting to know someone anymore? It’s like a game, ok how fast can we meet sleep together and move on to the next. I stay hopeful to find … more

Sorry being so cringe 😬 someone said he will ask me out when he is back- didn’t. The moment I unfollowed him, he said “ thanks for unfollowing”. I said “your words did not aligned with your action. “… more

Am I the only one who has given up on dating,,,like it ain't working anymore I loose interest so first 😭😭 any help

Any ladies traveling to Santa Clara (surrounding areas) and looking to chat with a fellow 33 M traveler? Work can get boring and looking to meet someone while I’m here - open to just chatting too if t… more

is it healthy if a man asks for exclusivity after just 6 dates (and 2 months of knowing each other overall)?
from 6 dates intimacy happened on 4 of them)) The shortest date was 3 hours. all other much longer.
but its tru… more

Hello, my 8 years of relationship just ended and I need a friend I can talk to... I have no friends as they have all cut off from me because they are his friends too and now, I am all alone with no on… more

Anyone around the bay area free for lunches and daytime chatting to help move the day along? 40M, Asian, has kids

I hope I'm not alone when I say this but.. I am starving for some good conversation and company. All I hear are problems and I'm supposed to be the one with all the solutions. In need of a fem… more

Come on people - why are you traveling to Dubai? But if anyone is here, feel free to give me a shout.

Should I break up with him if he doesn’t love me? We’ve been dating exclusively for about 6 months, official for 2, seeing each other almost every weekend and hanging out 2-3 days in a row, going on d… more

Has anyone here used Raya?

Anyone in Vegas? 33F, seeking short term distraction in a couple of weeks

In Chicago for the week, any single M or wingwomen want to meet for drinks? 🥂

In my experience, most singles events are attended by majority women. Why don’t men like attending these events?

Anyone in the San Jose area? Moved jobs and will be traveling for work frequently to San Jose, CA. Looking to meet F fishes and see if there’s chemistry to make a more permanent move. Not expecting co… more

10 years ago if you had sex with someone you could assume you’d at least get a text back 🥲

Who is ready for the cuffing season?

Are there any active Canadian men here?

As an aside, do y'all do gym meetups as a date idea?

It's a week night I'm incredibly lonely and want to go to a bar to try to see if I can meet a woman but I'm losing weight and I don't want the calories help me fish bowl. What should I… more

4 dates in with a new guy and chemistry seems good, but no intimacy yet and he still hasn’t made a move. Should I just assume he isn’t interested? He texts me consistently and wants to hang out again,… more

Advice: guy I’m dating, every time we have had a disagreement, he becomes recluse and I have to be the one to follow up/reach out. I finally got tired of it, and just don’t think he is emotionally mat… more

How to improve my interpersonal skills?
I don’t want to be alone anymore

How many of you truly trying to find someone for long term? It feels like every one is out hunting for fun!

Any advice to those with kids? Newly single, dad, terrified

Met a guy about 7 months ago, need some input on what to do. Details in comments

Hi! I'm 40s F and really wondering how are you finding new friends? I have found for the past 5-10 years esp. post covid, most of my friends are busy with their husbands / children with no time to hang out - … more

How many dates do you wait to give someone your phone number?

Anyone in Tokyo and want to hang out? (38M)

hey can we introduce a little bit of social responsibility here? if you start a story, got advice, TELL US how it ended up.
we need a closure

Should I drink text some random dude?

Q. Is 50 M and mid-30s F too much of an age gap?

Visiting Portland next week. Any ladies wants to catch up? 33M DM’s open

New dealbreaker: a suntanning selfie in a swimsuit. Even one.

(A pic doing and interesting activity where you happen to be in a swimsuit & someone else took the pic is OK, e.g. water skiing, surfin… more

Older mediocre finance bro sometimes just straight up gross.