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Are you a 30 or 40 something year old that has yet to settle down? Share your battles, advice and find the one 😉
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What other ways to meet good ppl without dating app?

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Any coparents?

I’m 50/50. My kids just left to mothers for the week. Worse sense of loneliness, always sad when they leave. Ages 13 and 9.

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Any red flags to look out for when dating a man who has been married/is now divorced?

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The opportunity was there with this sign, I could not resist. 😅 I spent my time on the brick aisle tho. Trying to lay a foundation with somebody…maybe cement a future? Ok, no more puns.

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How do you all meet people (besides dating apps)?

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👠 so what happens if a wife earns more than her husband? How has it been working out for people and do you have your finances together or separate, maybe a prenup? I’m in my 40s 😜 and having conv… more

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If a guy doesn't ask for my number nor give me his number but still continues to talk on an anonymous app for more than 5 months, is it time to ditch him and move on?
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For those of you in your early to mid thirties: how long would you consider the minimum to date before getting engaged? I met a great guy and think he might be the one but don’t want to rush in. Is 12… more

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Ladies...

curious what you consider to be most romantic first date?

fancy dinner with flowers? flower pedals on floor surrounding room? candle light? Strawberry covered chocolates? Date in a suit and t… more

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Beware of scammers here. I’m a guy and mentioning only the female types here. I’m sure there are male types too.

1. Someone with a Pennsylvania area code asking for money for a grandma’s operation - I didn’t get s… more

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Has anyone had any luck finding a partner on dating apps? I’ve been religiously searching for a suitable match over the last 2 years but no luck. Looks like no one wants to settle down these days…

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40F. Still want kids. And yet, every man I meet still seems to be interested in playing. Someone give me some hope, here. Preferably hope coming from 38+M who can vouch that not ALL of you are still w… more

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Is it okay to not want a romantic relationship with people? I have friends I can visit irl and am not very good at the whole romance thing. I am 40 and am still green and not really in a rush to look … more

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Really wondering why men do not want relationships? While out with my girlfriends (mid 30s, successful, 7s out of 10) say nobody wants relationships.

Really what on earth has happened in dating where over 35 men … more

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A friend and I were chatting about our dating experiences. She said - “at this point, I wouldn’t mind a short term, physically intimate relationship. I don’t care if it leads to something more serious… more

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Is there such thing as fate or destiny in dating world anymore? Any success stories?

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43F:
Question... I have recently considered leaving my 12-year relationship with a
"let's just say momma's boi at the very least" and I have had to endure some abuse from him and her at one … more

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Are there apps specifically for finding Mexican matches here is the US?

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How do I stop ghosting people 😭

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Question for the ladies. Are you more likely to swipe right on a dating app if you see the man works at McKinsey?

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Men, if you turn a situationship into a relationship, does it mean you really like them? Or that you don’t want to lose them right now but maybe you’ll be cool with it later? Or…?

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Forget dating, I want a good bunch of friends with similar frequency, both men and women with whom I can enjoy at Patrick’s day, go to Amsterdam and get chicken over rice at midnight occasionally. Loc… more

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36F. Was in a 9 month relationship that had its challenges but thought it was the one. Got into a fight and he broke it off. Been trying the whole no contact thing. But I can’t seem to let it go. Been… more

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Anyone else need a break from doing taxes or working this morning and want a little fun?

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Been on 3 dates with a guy where I've learned that he used to snort coke occasionally. He's since kicked that habit but gets stoned *every day*.

With that said he's an otherwise high functioning perso… more

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I am 31 and single and never had a good long term relationship, all my friends are now getting married or having a baby this year, i want this too one day.
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Why is it so hard to find a new group of friends when all your old friends move out of state? 🙃

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Most marriages end in divorce, how do y'all feel about this?

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Boston fishes,
Anyone interested in meeting up in the city Sunday afternoon for drinks or light snack? Always cool to make a friend. M/45

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Ladies here- what's your take on waxing? Do you do it for you or your SO or your date?

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The reason most if not all of you can't get a date is because you're 30 & 40 asking for someone's Snapchat fr grow up! Im choosing violence today 😭😂

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I get easily turned off when a guy talks about sexual content. I’m not in my early 20s anymore and in dating it should be okay for someone to talk about these things to me?

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Just got diagnosed with Covid yesterday. Feeling horrible. I hope everyone else is having a better day.

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Anyone in Houston interested grabbing drinks over the weekend?

Not a date, just a meetup for the Houston singles! Open to anyone 😇

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Happy Friyay!

Find something worthy to celebrate today that empowers yourself during times of solitude. Being single isn’t all bad. Enjoy your freedom. ❤️😍🥳🥸🤗

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Baby come back!!! You can blame it all on me…

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Come and join our dinner event if you are in Venice, CA. Good way to mingle 🙃

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Any smart good looking M (bi or gay) 29-38 in Philadelphia?

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