30s & 40s Singles

Do conservative men still exist?

Happy Friday! Any ladies in the NYC/Philly/DC area would like to chat and see what happens? 38 M in Brooklyn here.

Looking for a date (F) in Bellevue area. Anyone here?

Suggestions for a 4-5 day solo trip within US. Dec 17-Dec 24. M/42/Chicago and open to all ideas.

Hi all, where to meet people of other race guys over age 40? Mature? But serious guys only not these casual types. I m done with Indian brown guys. I am open to talking to educated people of Caucasi… more

Going to the bay this weekend. Any management consultant available to hang? Female, single, 34.

Have a friend who ended a long relationship. After a year of them being broken up — our talking turned into flirting, initiated by him. When I was out sharing pictures he’d ask who the lucky man was that was out … more

26 year old man here who prefers to date older woman here 😁

F 🐠, going for a date tonight. Introduced by family. Should I take flowers?

Hey, have y’all tried a local match maker? I know it sounds eh but a few people have highly recommended one. Says she’s amazing at what she does. I’m in my 40s and am not getting any younger. I am con… more

I've been dating a guy for a little over 4 months and I find that I live in almost constant fear that I will be ghosted or otherwise dumped.

He's been away for most of the past week for Thanksg… more

Anyone here located in Quebec or Atlantic Canada?

Kissed or made out on a first date?
Who initiated it and how?

Biggest turn ons/offs?

I just got back on the apps a few weeks ago and have been seeing a few women here and there. I'm still trying to decide between the 2 of them that I like the most. I'm kinda curious about sexual compatibi… more

If you’re a guy on the spectrum should you put that on your dating profile?

How many of you at this stage in your life genuinely need/want more friends?

Question, so I had a work crush in my former job. But lost it recently. Is this a good time to start something with work crush now or whut.

Ok go :D

Wrapped up a project recently and, honestly, I hit it off with someone there. We seemed to vibe well, but it's always tricky to tell in a work setting, right?

Now, I'm looking for a bit of advice on… more

I only seem to match with women that I don’t find myself attracted to, on dating apps. At least 95% of the time ; very occasionally it’s someone who I do find attractive. And these are by no means 10/10 that I am seeki… more

Question to singles in 40/50s - do you find most people do not want a relationship?

Their focus is work. Not a relationship- is this due to being in prime working years?

I’m losing hope and feeling lo… more

Do men get turned off when a woman “likes” him first on an app?

38 M, if any F 🐠 wants to chat spicy this fine Saturday AM 🌶️🌶️🔥🔥

If you are 40+ M post a comment. How are you finding singles ladies to meet? What apps or approach are u using?

Guys are not serious in dating ... Have you noticed that females??? It's in any state they are of any race? Is it because of dating apps?
Every guy on app is looking for hook ups

When someone asks “are you open for a non-traditional relationship” - what does it mean?

Any tips on how to meet people as an introvert? After the pandemic my social anxiety has 📈 especially in large groups

Anyone have experience hiring a matchmaker? Not the services like Three Day Rule and Tawkify, but an actual established high-end matchmaker? I am willing to invest in one but am struggling to find a r… more

How else is everyone meeting people (outside of dating apps)?

I’m dating two guys and can’t make a choice. One guy is pushing for exclusivity and I don’t think I can drag this “not ready” conversation longer. But I really want the other guy. He hasn’t asked for … more

What's your after marriage daring rules. F here

I’m 30F and visiting Santa Monica. Any 33-37M looking to meet this week?

I have a question for the men:
On average, how often are women initiating dates?

In California, looking for some guy over age 41. He is looking for a serious and looking term relationship. I am open to brown guys.....
I m 42 female in San Jose.

Hey y’all - any single men who can hold a conversation open to chatting? I’m 31/f/lives in california. I don’t bite so hit me up :)

Have you dated someone who went to trade / tech school and didn't get an undergrad degree? How was it?

M here. She's hot, but I have no idea what the conversation will be like. Of course, there are billionaires who dr… more