As a wedding guest, is a dress that shows cleavage inappropriate? I do have a bigger bust. Below is the one I’d like to wear. It’s a vineyard wedding. Thanks in advance

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Fun fact: this dress is what my best friend picked out for all of us for our bridesmaids dress! I’m not particularly busty, but even I will, uh, be drawing a lot of attention with the neckline. 😂

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Same! It was a very busty dress

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Cleavage is fine as long as it’s not outrageous. If you’re close to poppin out I’d say find something with a little more coverage. Beautiful dress btw

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I would dance around and see if everything stays.... Secure. LOL

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No this is a gorgeous dress

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If your cleavage is similar to the models, the dress is 💯. If you’re Pamela Anderson in that dress, I might elect something a bit more modest 🤷🏻‍♀️

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No, it’s really conservative

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I think it’s a pretty safe choice, but 90% of my wardrobe is Fashion Nova so don’t listen to me 🤣

I don’t think you need to be overly conservative at a wedding. Just so long as you’re not wearing too much white and trying to look like the bride, you do you!

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If you have a bigger bust then maybe not. And it ia not that it wouldn't look good but, as a guest at someone's wedding I would let the bride "shine" and not turn attention towards me. In any other event I would say "go ahead". And just to be sure,neither black nor white are good colors for guests at weddings.

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When you say vineyard wedding do you mean like a wine vineyard or like Martha’s Vineyard? Not sure it’s the right style for either... but i wouldn’t wear black unless it’s black tie. I’d opt for something more seasonally appropriate and playful.

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I think it’s a lovely dress, but echo what other folks are saying about being cognizant of your environment.

I’m personally here for all of us ladies to feel comfortable in our own skin always, but generally speaking if you have to ask, that’s not a great sign

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Can you share the link? Id love to wear it post baby for a date night!! Gorgeous. Id likely not wear it to a wedding but wouldnt frown on someone who did! The short hootchie (clubby) dresses i see at weddings definitely get my frowns though.

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Mainly the share the link part! Haha

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I’d wear it but probably not in black

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If you have D+ cups I’d stay away. I am curvy myself and once ended up wearing a Herve Ledger bandage dress to a wedding because everything else I owned was stuck in a storage unit (long NYC moving story). The bride seemed unamused and I felt a bit awkward having my figure as the one most obviously on display at a 200 person event. 🤷‍♀️

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As a DDDD cup — I would avoid this kind of dress

I’m a 32DD and say this is fine

I’ve worn this to several weddings

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Looks great, but I can't comment without knowing the expectations for the wedding you are attending.

You can always bring a shawl to cover up if needed.

I’ve worn this several times for weddings and it’s been fine

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Beautiful dress, you look stunning! That really isn’t so much cleavage though.

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