For those with a paid membership on dating apps like Tinder or Hinge—is it worth it?

I’m trying to meet guys organically, but it feels like everyone desirable is already taken. I also get way more attention on hookup apps than dating ones.

How are people actually finding good prospects these days?

29M, Chicago—fit, successful, good looking.

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No! They’re a waste of $. But if your description is accurate you should have no trouble finding many desirable men in the real world. Have you tried the dating feature on Facebook?

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