I have a FET transfer scheduled in two weeks but just received my dream in-house counsel job and slated to start in one month. Should I delay my FET transfer until im more settled in? I’ve been both trying to conceive and trying to move in-house for over a year

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Only reason I would delay is if they have a 1 year waiting period before maternity leave kicks in. I found the egg retrieval to be more painful than the FET! I took 2 days off post FET to relax and let baby stick, and then I was fine to work after that! Best of luck with everything!!

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Agree with this approach. Would check your leave policy (you can ask them for all their policies before you start if you don’t have them now) just to be sure you don’t have a one year waiting period before paid leave is available (which is really common and would only set you back 3 months into the job).

I wouldn’t delay. I had two FETs that failed (heading into my third this month). There’s no perfect time to have a baby!

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Take the offer and go forward with the FET. Hopefully both are blessings and work out ❤️ I wouldn’t delay the FET

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