If you really didn't like someone's partner and thought they might ruin your wedding, would you invite them anyway or ask that they didn't attend?

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Send an invite with their name and their name only. No plus one spot. No blah blah and guest. If you are having them rsvp on line auto populate the # of attendees to 1 for that person. If they STILL ask about bringing their partner say you have a limited amount of seat/budget and only they can attend.

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We didn’t invite the partner of one of my friends (known coke head and causer of trouble) by just making it very clear that only the friend was invited. Never addressed it, never asked him not to attend. We just hoped she could take a hint and she did.

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