Should I invite fewer people to a destination wedding or will people just naturally decline?

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They’ll decline. The further it is the more will decline

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Depends on how well off the people you invite are.

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Domestic destination (pricey but gorgeous). Most guests were well off. My experience if it helps

Invited 215
140 yes, but with last minute declines was in 130s

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We had about 2/3 accept. Granted, most of the declines were from elderly relatives or new parents.

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