Fun question: what are the best and the worst wedding trends you’ve seen?

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My favorite - bows on dresses

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Best trends: lots of stations at cocktail hour (I’ve gathered this is a venue thing, some venues are known for it). Worst trends: dancing between courses (NY-style reception) if there’s isn’t ample food at cocktail hour

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Best: hot food station at the end of the evening (bring on the kimchi jjigae!). Worst: “creative” interpretations of “black tie”

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Not having assigned seating!

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@C1 omg this terrible trend. I went by myself to a friend's wedding and arrived a little late to the reception (it was in a city I was unfamiliar with so I got lost on my way from the wedding). There was no assigned seating and I ended up sitting with the estranged step family of the groom that I did not know well. There was a lot of passive aggressive comments that made me exceedingly uncomfortable. 😭😭

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