In the final stages of a job offer and one more reference to go. I reached out to someone who I thought I trusted today and they’ve told me they’re really busy at work tomorrow. That today they didn’t even get a break so maybe Monday is better. They know I’ve found the job hunt hard and to some extent they’ve emotionally supported me through it. Am I being unreasonable that this is bullshit? A reference is like 5-10mins.

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if I understand you correctly? You put this person down as a reference, but she’s not responding to the reference check? Claiming she’s too busy? That is rude. I give you that. Do you think you would be allowed to submit a new reference that’s not so Busy? And I would definitely remember this for the future.

this is why you should talk to your references before you provide the reference list to your potential new employer. I know it’s embarrassing. When I was in the middle of my career. I used the same people so many times as a reference. I’m sure they thought I was a raving idiot. Always gave him a heads up and said they might be called. I always gave him the job description and a few talking points just in case they needed some guidance. It’s always worked out.

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