Ladies - my SO told me today that he messaged his ex to give her constructive criticism on her business. She was his financial advisor and he didn’t like how she handled things. He continued to tell me he did it because he was feeling petty - like wtf. I asked why not just take the high road especially when things ended with them two years ago. Also, he knew it would trigger her. I’m not okay with his behavior. Am I overreacting? He’s in his mid-30s, when do they grow up?

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They don’t grow up lol.

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Vindictive behavior...

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Ugh, he needs to delete every trace of her. No one remembers phone numbers and email addresses these days anyway lol

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I don’t think you’re overreacting. Sometimes I want to call people out too but I don’t do it bc I know it’s not the right thing to do and it won’t do any good.

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