Lots of hot guys in europe that are into me … not the same as home 🫨 why do American guys not like me? Sometimes I wonder if it’s because I come off too masculine or don’t dress gay. It’s just how I am. Maybe the guys here just want fun with a stereotypical american looking and acting man. Idk. It’s frustrating every time I come over here and have to come back to the US and be ostracized for not being an A lister in the scene, as a non scene guy who isn’t socially active.

Can anyone share their experience for "Wealth Management Americas(WMA) Investment Products IT Change the Bank(CTB) team"? How are projects I mean newer or legacy technology, WLB, team's culture?

I’m a newer registered nurse (2 years) and want to get into remote work. I keep getting denied due to lack of experience but to even get the job I have now (case manager) the company knew one of my family members and they gave me a chance to interview because of that. For these remote companies where I don’t have connections how can I transition over?

How is the work life balance in Citi for testers and how is the work pressure? And how often testing team stretch?

What is average CTC for Scrum Master with 13 years experience in IT and 5+ years as scrum master

What is resource management group?

Anyone know which firms pay clerkship bonuses for Florida Supreme Court clerkships? If so, how much?

Thoughts on the new Ariana Grande track called God is a woman? Everyone in my creative department was loving it and I felt like the only one who wasn’t 100% on board.

Book recommendations for Experimentation (for a noob)

Do people know if the big 4 are all wfh and onboarding that way as well? Or have they started setting return to office dates?

What class years at Kirkland Texas offices are oversubscribed? I heard it was class of 2020. Any other years that overhired?

Hi All,
Apart from the pandemic year, how's hike and bonus in EY GDS in general?

I've heard that last year was rough but in general its good. Is that true?

I'm joining next month. Can i expect an annual hike of 10℅+ and bonus > 10℅ (which is target VP at my rank, 42) going forward?? Or is this unrealistic?

I know that it comes down to individual performance and other business factors. But still, could you all pls advise me so that i can know what to expect.

Publicis Sapient vs Nagarro? Which is recommended too join for Java Springboot Microservices?

Anyone here at Nunwood?

While in system implementations, how do you augment user adoption?

This involves training, however what other approaches and tools/solutions do you lean on?

My offer discussion is going on with KGS, is it a good switch from EY India to KGS?

Will s&p provide headset along with laptop for new joiners?

Any ladies at DU this week?

Best lesbian bars in nyc?

Why are some people not into feet?

I grew up in a nuclear family away from extended relatives who were never really close. Parents were either emotionally unavailable or distant. All I've wanted for myself was a big loving family to call my own.. my parents are unaccepting of my sexuality & my partners family is also quite fucked up so she's isn't super close to them either. Honestly this sucks & it feels like I'll never have a huge supportive family I've wanted & craved for.

I have an interview with McKinsey on Monday, any tips/suggestions?

Being forced onto banking project with no finance background or cultural leanings—tips? 🥴

After being broken up now for 14 months - I think I still love my ex. We were together 6 years, and never fought. I thought I would spend the rest of my life with him. I don’t know why I can’t move on. It’s my birthday weekend and I have plans all weekend, but can’t stop thinking about this. I’ve been out with lots of great guys, but I keep holding on that maybe… one day we will be together again. Then my ex texted me today to let me know he and his new fiancé are moving to (cont. below)…

For those that use Grindr, has their Kindr campaign had any real impact on how you use the app/messages and matches you get?

How’s it like being gay in Singapore?

Does anyone have experience or advice on being a stepdad? My bf has a 6 year old (whom I adore) and I want to be as good a stepdad as I can be without overstepping any boundaries. Any advice is welcome!

Has anyone ever been in a mostly platonic relationship? I don’t like to label myself much, but I don’t really like intimacy and don’t really like romance. Some people would say I’m asexual/aromantic, but unless that too is a spectrum, I don’t think I fit squarely into that group. As I get older, I’m realizing I’m feeling very lonely. It would be nice to find someone, but have it be platonic (any gender/sex). It’s weird, I know. It’s hard to articulate as well. Can anyone relate? 😭😭

Happy Pride everyone

My manager (unknowingly) messaged me on Grindr. What should I do now?

Any 🐠 attending the Pilgrimage Festival in Nashville this weekend?

things to do in Vegas? favorite restaurants, hotels, spas, etc?

Almost midnight here and I'm cleaning my medicine cabinet so I can reboot having a regular skin-care routine. I'm listening to one of my favorite musicals, "Ragtime", specifically the song "He Wanted to Say". Living 9 time zones away from home out of the US and watching the BLM movement there, unable to do anything concrete about it from here - this song I've listened to countless times, today about brought me to tears.

I really don’t mean this to virtue signal - just wanted to share a moment.

What’s up DC?

Facebook: we know everything about you and do hyper-targeted ads based on a comment you made in a post or message once
Also Facebook: DONATE BLOOD NOW (even as an out gay man who opted out of these)

I feel like I’ve lost myself since joining McK. My whole world has become about work. I love my job but I’m not the same person I started and I feel I don’t connect with my friends and family the way I use to. I’m not sure if I’ve grown, or lost a part of myself. Is this growing up or do I need to make a career change?