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It’s on my “interested” list. How is it so far? Summary struck me as a bit “self-helpy”

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I read it, didn’t jive with it personally, but thought it typecast A LOT of my friends well. The Great Believers by Rebecca Makkai is really good, I recommend that.

Hot take, the thesis here is a bit dated

I read it a while ago - didn’t quite resonate with me because my journey as a gay man was very seamless and easy - but definitely made a lot of sense in general, especially when I talked about it with my friends.

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