Ok this is very hard for me to post and I’m nervous about comments. I’m a woman. I have 3 kids. Divorced. I’m 5’8, muscular and pretty fit with some hips lol. However in the past two years I’ve been asked by two drunk men if I’m really a man. It is such an insult and destroying my confidence. Is something wrong with me. I don’t know what to do.

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Now way, stay yolked and forget the haters

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PLEASE ignore them.

There are so many fools and rude people in the world that aren’t worth your time.

The man for you will value you, beyond aesthetics and for all of you and will likely appreciate your muscles!

Your fitness routine probably keeps you sane as a consultant and a parent lol

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Drunk men? That’s interesting and I guess you could see this many different ways.

Ignore them they were drunk and being rude. Or maybe find some male fiends and inquire in a safe environment on what an initial impression would be of you visually.

At one point in my life I had a certain type of man approaching me. I changed a few habit’s because I only wanted to attract Christian men that were mature.

It worked for me, I don’t entertain those type of guys anymore and I’m very intentional.

Good luck.🍀

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Sounds like they don't have any class, that is so rude. Dear you are most definitely not the problem. Don't be discouraged, you are somebodies answered prayer.

Proverbs 18:12 Fools find no pleasure in understanding but delight in airing their own opinions.

You just keep doing you and ignore the opinions of little boys.

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