Anyone dealt with a Christian parent who has been backsliding since the pandemic? Is this common? And how did you deal with it?

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Backsliding as in losing faith?

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More like - I think he’s been recently started looking at inappropriate photos/videos, he no longer prays during family prayer time (and a lot of this is causing other issues with my mom)

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.. or not going to church?

I think the best action would be to just have a heart to heart with him and mention that you’re worried about everything and how it’s changing the dynamic of things in your family.

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