Okay, this is going to be petty and superficial so you’ve been warned. But err uhh… have any of you noticed a certain “type” of yt woman gives you hell at work? I only have two oops at work and they’re both very uhh… homely. And when I think back to other projects I’ve worked on, it’s mostly been homely yt ladies who were a pain in my butt. Just me???

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I don’t know that they’re jealous. I just think they’re relatively more miserable. Maybe their appearance is a side effect of the misery or a cause, but I do notice a pattern.

If you don’t notice a pattern then cool! This is not that serious of a post. That’s why I started it the way I did.

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All types can be dangerous - even other black women

I think we should avoid the “less attractive women are just jealous” intellectual trap

The truth is - women are fighting over scraps in some workplaces. Self-serving behavior and attacking others is inevitable.

With the current climate, I feel that this will be more normalized - at least for a while

In your situation, if those women are behaving, that way, you can be sure that others are also engaging in survival tactics, which may not be obvious to you… Even the other Black people. Please be careful.

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Hmm can't say that I have experienced that but I agree with the first comment. All types can be dangerous and there can definitely be some jealousy going on there.

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