Just here to say I’m so thankful we have this safe space. People who aren’t diagnosed generally have misconceptions about ADHD and its symptoms, and I’m so grateful we have this bowl to seek help, learn from one another, and sometimes just vent! With all the negativity in the world, this bowl is that one ray of sunshine I so desperately need, so thank you everyone for what you have done and what you’ll continue to do!

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Awe, this post and these comments warm my heart! I'm so glad I randomly started this group one day! 💖
Thank you all for making this space so helpful and supportive! ✨

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I'm grateful about it too! I feel a lot of support from this community, and I'm happy to know that people understand my situation.

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Same here. I always visit this community and I always learn several things from here. We are placed in several different situations and to see that everyone else is willing to help is very heartwarming. Thank you all!

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This is community has been a godsend. You all have helped me so much.

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I agree with you. THis bowl has been such a resource for me and has also really helped me feel less alone. So glad you all are here.

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I feel the same way. I tell my partner about this forum and bring it up almost daily. I'm so happy to have a group of people that support me and understand me.

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Thank you all for this space, and for making us feel like we're not alone. I struggle daily, despite being diagnosed and on medication. It's a never-ending battle to push yourself one day at a time.

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Group hug. 🫂

(In other news I just learned from fishbowl that this 🫂 is a hug. Not a video camera. )

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Same here! This is my virtual safe space. I am grateful to be a part of this community.

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