Out of curiosity, how many of you have gotten into a situationship with someone more junior at your firm?

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“I keep getting older and they stay the same age.”

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Nope nope and nope.

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Except for the newly minted co-ceo

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Nothing good can come of it

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Is this HR? Around Christmas party time…. I was never there. It wasn’t me. 😇

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Don’t defecate where you eat. “Situationships” are too stressful as they are. Do you really want that at work?

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Yes - I’m a senior partner, and had a 6 month relationship with a director in another division a few years back.

Worst (more embarrassing) part was having to inform the leadership. The only question they came back to me with was - ‘can I assume it’s consensual’…

As long as it’s not a direct report, and there’s no infidelity involved - they were ok.

Not particularly smart, not sure I’d do it again. Although one thing did surprise me - after finding out, a lot of other partners mentioned to me that they also met their husband/wife at the firm.

Isn’t it apparently where over 40% of people meet their partner?

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The “consensual” comment had me cracking up. Like, “well actually, no. But she is well contained in the pit and puts the lotion on its skin, so it’s fine”

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Terrible idea - but seen it many times especially in Europe

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Situationship?! There is no way I would start something at work unless I had every intention of a long term relationship. I would never potentially blow up my career for something that wasn't serious.

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Been tempted, but never pursued. The world/firm is too small and word would spread.

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OMG, this doesn’t happen at EY

lol. Uh huh. Sure it doesn’t.

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Oh yes it does - I can name at least 5 with Partners and staff.

USA here - no thanks. I see the Europeans pairing up all the time though when they come to USA for conferences and tradeshows.

Your professional reputation is everything, I don’t want to risk running into someone then being embarrassed and sharing with others. It’s too much risk, some of us have a very pristine reputation at work and we want to keep it that way. There’s TOO MUCH money to be made around here and I’m certainly not losing it for a situationship!

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