Pride Month is almost here, and my area usually has several decent-sized celebrations. However, due to funding and other issues, at least two of these have been canceled. Has anyone else seen any Pride celebrations being downed sized or canceled this year?

Being forced onto banking project with no finance background or cultural leanings—tips? 🥴

Countdown... beginning now

Just lost my job. Has the job market started to cool down? What should I expect for leadership roles in I.T.

Any larger firms in Denver, CO or Tampa, FL hiring right now? Looking to relocate to either place. Third year, litigation.

You know it has been a while when you forgot the combination to your gym lock... #fail

Anyone working at Raytheon or lockheed . Applied for several positions and nothing. Currently transitioning to civilian life and job hunting

Have you been invited to join The Human Gathering?
Did you do it? Was it worth it?

Hi! Please share the recruitment process in Ericsson. Thanks

Hi Fishes,

I have offer from vodafone vois-14.50 LPA(8%VARIABLE), Synechron (18.57)fixed LPA, DXC TECHNOLOGY -21(20 FIXED 1 VARIABLE)LPA. pls suggest and advice where to go.

My last working day is 17th October. BoA joining date is 9 November. Offer received, HR mentioned bvg check takes time in BoA so Joining date is this late.

I'm worried if there is been any instances of Opening Freezed or any other reason to not on-board ?

Appreciate your thoughts on this.

How is Salesforce practice in RSM?

What will be the pay hike this year? I joined in June month..

My girlfriend and I have been in a long distance relationship for 8 months now. We talk every single day online and recently I went to visit her for around a month. It was great and it seemed like the relationship was stronger than ever. But one week back after visiting her, I felt a strange detachment from her and our conversation topic got repetitive and stale quick. Any advice?

I’ve only been in short term casual flings & i feel like they are always shallow in convo - I try to get deeper to clarify my intentions but i think it’s too soon and it crashes. At what point do you start talking more emotional/deeper topics with someone you are romantically interested in? What do those topics include?

Haven’t done the dating thing in a while so need advice! (F here) Met a guy at a party on Sat, followed each other on insta, then I dm’ed him my number saying “lmk if you want to get drinks sometime”. He then texts me and says something along the lines of “yeah let’s do it” but doesn’t offer any concrete plan. Does this mean he’s not super into it? Or am I overreacting and I should initiate the plan? I initiated the insta follow and the dm so I feel like it’s his turn…?

so I have trouble presenting myself well. I usually look haggard and I seem to wear out shoes and clothes at an alarming rate. Looking for a few good guiding principles to improve on this. M fish

I’m close to get an offer at Merrill Lynch as a VP, I told the recruiter I wanted 180k base 220k total comp for fullstack web dev and he said it was ok, the market is good, can I ask 4 more?

Looking for a few highly-motivated partners to start an ad agency with; preferably one in accounts and one in media buying. If that sounds like you and you’re ready to take control of your future, we should talk.

Anyone here play tennis? Recently moved here and trying to find some good courts. Recs are appreciated. TIA!

Any non-cishet male folks want to chat? Missing community right now!

Any ladies at DU this week?

Im mainly into POC and they’re so hard to find at the big 4. Finally met a cute POC & come to find out he has a wife. When I tell you I was so sad 😂

What’s up DC?

For those that use Grindr, has their Kindr campaign had any real impact on how you use the app/messages and matches you get?

How’s it like being gay in Singapore?

Every single project I'm part of is filled with 30-something engaged or married guys who are straight. I give up

Any 🐠 attending the Pilgrimage Festival in Nashville this weekend?

Thoughts on preferred pronouns in your email signature?

My anxiety is through the roof for the 2024 USA presidential election. I’m so scared that DeSantis or Trump will win and we will lose all rights as transgender people. Someone please comfort me.

Ideas for rings? I’m a man thinking of proposing to another man, and we both like low key stuff. Is using the same ring for both proposal and wedding band weird?

I have an interview with McKinsey on Monday, any tips/suggestions?

I know this is very stereotypical to ask here, but did anyone watch the latest episode of White Lotus? DM me! My friends are watching it tomorrow and I need to get my thoughts out!!!!!

Any EY Dallas LGBT Fish? 🐠

Doctor rec’s? I was in DC before and I used to go to Whitman Walker, an LGBT focused primary care clinic, clean, efficient and friendly, and they understood the LGBT needs, like PrEP, very well, which is mainly what I need from my PCP. Is there such a thing in NYC?

Anyone in NYC this Thursday eve? Looking to go out and have a fun time. Tips/companions welcome :)

How many of you are in an interracial relationship? And what are yours and your partner's ethnicities?Just wanted to do a quick poll :)

Facebook: we know everything about you and do hyper-targeted ads based on a comment you made in a post or message once
Also Facebook: DONATE BLOOD NOW (even as an out gay man who opted out of these)

Has anyone hooked up with a project team member? There’s some weird interactions going on here between me and another. Not sure how to navigate. Also, he’s hot.