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You should trust them! I know it sounds wildly coincidental to hear it twice, but sadly it happens way more often than people admit in our community because of the pressure to marry to 'hide' things.
I’m saying this because I’ve literally been in their shoes. Not long after I got married, I caught my ex chatting with guys. It was a nightmare. So pls try to have some empathy rather than doubting them; it takes a lot of strength to be open about that trauma with a new match.
Definitely happens more often than you think, know at least one couple where this is the case and reason for their divorce.
Is this a real thing? How is it so prevalent, I’ve least met 3 people who have claimed this. They were all very attractive so no reason for them to settle. I’m just trying to figure out if saying their ex is gay is the new saying your ex was a narcissist or if it’s legit lol
I feel like it’s definitely more evident now where the girlies are finding guys who are gay behind closed doors and then they get caught.
This sounds very shady, not sure I would be quick to believe it
Isnt this called lavender marriage? Have heard from other girls as well. More common than you think.
I know of one situation where this was real - it was an arranged marriage and it was pretty obvious the guy was gay. The other 2 times I heard it:
1. The girl was trying to say that her not getting pregnant was not her fault but his so she could get married later
2. The girl wanted an easy way out, later found out she cheated and he was so broken that we never saw him again so her lie was easy cover