To the bi audience: I have been told that there no such thing as bisexual I am only gay. Like they can read my mind or something. If anyone has been through this how do they put up with it,I try humor but sometimes it really ticks off

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I tell those people to shut the f up and than go to HR. No one in this world gets to tell you who you are but you. If this is happening in just everyday life. Ask them what makes them so sad in life? like actually push it back on them and make sure they know, they are just sad/ angry you are fully you and you are happy about that. It truly is there own insecurity's with themselves they are projecting on you. I hope that helps and I am happy you are you.

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As a bi man married to a bi woman for ten years, and also having been in a throuple with a bi man and bi woman, I can assuredly say that bisexual people exist.

However, I can also assuredly say bisexual is used as a label to scapegoat the fragility of the male ego and even if he’s just gay, he tacks on bisexual and causes the rest of us a lot of flack or confusion.

While I am a ho and I’ve been around the block, I’ve definitely met far less bisexuals who can truly love and want on an equal 50/50 playing field - but that’s because sexuality is a spectrum. It’s never the same for each person.

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I’m a lot older than you. Married a woman many years ago, who I love and have been faithful to. Have been bi my whole life and don’t regret any decisions I’ve made. Don’t let people define you or try to stick you in their little boxes. Bigotry and biases can come from anywhere.

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Thanks it's not like I run around telling everyone about my sexuality these are people that I consider friends. I appreciate the kind words

If you are male and bisexual, then I totally get where you’re coming from (not that I wouldn’t otherwise). Unfortunately because of heteronormative and misogynistic attitudes, it’s unfathomable in society, for people to think it’s a reality.

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