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I’m avoidant and wife is anxious. If anyone has an answer that would be great.
Yes, I'm the anxious one, and my husband is avoidant. It's more frustrating on my end as he just avoids any tough conversations or confrontations. We just learn to live with it over time as there's no other alternative.
Read the book "Attached" together.
Easy, digestible read.
Note: I have a disorganized attachment from an extremely abusive upbringing. I've been ruining my relationship trying to learn new [everything] and this is one of a few things that was easy to move through. Obviously, the hard part is the work day in and day out, but having material that makes things clear is useful.
The longer we’ve been married (35 years almost 36) the easier our marriage has been in general. We both feel the same.
I know that in the past, in times of high stress we were both pretty avoidant, which wasn’t good. We definitely had some rough stretches when the kids were in high school, etc.
It’s best to talk about it without emotion. That got easier for us as well, communication in general. Hang in there!